Everything we do in life is a choice, and I think most of us realize that. But what most people don’t seem to realize is that everything we don’t do in life is also a choice. So every day, we choose to do some things and not to do other things.
Sometimes choosing not to do something is the wisest choice. However, there is a huge difference between choosing not to do something and choosing to do nothing.
Most people would like to change their life in one way or another. How about you? Are there areas of your life that you would like to change?
You Have a Choice
But I am here to tell you that what seems to be impossible is indeed possible. First and foremost, we have a choice. This choice is where it all begins to change; it’s where we choose to come out from beneath the dark cloud under which we reside and step out into the sun. It is fear that keeps us in our pain, locking us into our retreat from life. Having been stuck in this kind of pain for many years myself, I finally came to understand that happiness is a choice. And it was a choice I had to make before my life could change for the better.
- Seek Guidance from Loved Ones
Once the choice is made to make a change, it is important for us to decide what things we’d like to change. The difficult part lies in making daily choices and decisions that would affect or create the change that is desired. Seeking guidance from our loved ones through this process can be a valuable tool. Oftentimes, our loved ones see things from the outside that we might not be able to see because we are stuck on the inside.
- Seek Spiritual Guidance
Additionally, seeking spiritual guidance when we desire to change can be invaluable. We walk through life creating and continuing patterns that can cause some of the negative things we’ve experienced. One of the most valuable tools we can use is reaching out for direction on how to break those patterns and overcome the obstacles we face to keep us stuck. Sometimes, it’s as simple as being pointed in the right direction. Finding someone that we connect with when reaching out for this guidance is important, as it’s both the information, as well as the delivery of the information that can prompt the change that is necessary. As a psychic, I come from an understanding and empathic place, but not everyone responds well to that approach. The most important thing is to find someone you can trust to help guide you through some of the changes.
- Surround Yourself with Good Examples
And finally, surround yourself with people who have implemented the kind of change you want to see in your own life. This is probably one of the healthiest things we can do because we learn so well by watching others. We all have people in our lives who we’ve admired and others who leave much to be desired. So, start spending more time with the people in your life who are happy. They will inspire you to follow this path yourself and teach you how it can be accomplished.
So don’t let another day pass when you’re still stuck in your pain. Today can be the day that everything changes. The choice is yours.
The article brings up valid points about fear and how it can paralyze us from making beneficial changes. Overcoming that fear seems to be a crucial step.
Absolutely, breaking the patterns that fear creates requires both courage and support. It’s a journey worth undertaking.
Indeed, fear can be a significant barrier. Recognizing it and taking steps to address it can be transformative.
The idea of seeking guidance from loved ones and spiritual advisors is intriguing. It suggests a communal approach to personal change, which might be more effective than solitary efforts.
The focus on making daily choices to create desired changes underscores the idea that change is a process. It’s not about one grand gesture, but rather consistent effort.
The emphasis on surrounding oneself with positive examples resonates with me. It’s a practical step towards change that can have immediate, observable benefits.
The concept of recognizing inaction as a choice is thought-provoking. It adds a layer of responsibility to our daily decisions that many might not consciously acknowledge.