If you are new at getting tarot card readings or if you decide that you are going to do your own tarot reading, the best thing that you need to think about, before you ever get started, is the questions to ask. In order to get the information and insight that you need, you want to make sure that you are asking and phrasing your questions right. Asking the wrong kinds of questions or not phrasing them the right way can lead you to be more confused.
There are some tips that you can use when you are getting a tarot card reading and this will be the same tips that you should use when you are doing your own spreads.
Best Way to Ask Tarot Questions
You might find that there are some clients that ask questions that aren’t the best questions for a tarot card reading. Don’t let this bother you. When someone is new, they will not really know how to have the best readings and they might have different expectations than you have when you get your own reading.
Sometimes if you are giving the reading, you can ask them to rephrase their question. Listen to what your intuition is telling you and try to find out what question they are really wanting to ask. Sometimes the questions will only get to the top of what they really want to know.
Open Ended Questions
You need to make sure that you aren’t asking yes and no questions during a tarot card reading if you want to get the right answer. You can definitely ask these kinds of questions but when you need to go deeper, a yes or no answer isn’t going to suffice. The cards want to give you information and to explain what possibilities lie before you.
Here are some do’s and don’ts for these kinds of questions:
- Don’t ask: “Am I going to get this job?”
- Do ask: “How can I reach my career goals so I can get the best job for me?”
Focus On You
Instead of focusing on other people, learn to focus on yourself. Focusing on other people might end up even being unethical because the tarot cards about someone else can’t be controlled. This can lead to stress when getting answers.
Here are some do’s and don’ts for these kinds of questions:
- Don’t ask, “Does the person I like, like someone else?”
- Do ask: “How can I make the bond between me and my crush stronger?”
Know the Situation
You might want to put responsibility on someone or something else and become a victim. This happens because you are human, and humans are emotional. There are times when you might be the victim but there are things that you can do to change your situation even if it just changes it a little bit.
Make sure that you are looking at the things that give you power and not about things that make you more of a victim. The way that you word your question can help to improve your journey instead of making it harder.
Here are some do’s and don’ts for these kinds of questions:
- Don’t ask: “Am I going to win the lottery?”
- Do ask: “What can I do to make my finances better and what is blocking me from being successful?”
Focus on the Now
Make sure that you are focusing on what is going on now. Even though tarot card readings can focus on your past, present and future, the best kinds of questions focus on what is happening in front of you now.
When you are stuck on what the future holds, you need to remember that the things that you do today will change the future for you. Don’t use the tarot card reading to find out about your past or your future but focus on what is going on now.
Here are some do’s and don’ts for these kinds of questions:
- Don’t ask: “Did I do the right thing in my past?”
- Do ask: “What can I do to make the most of what is going on in my life?”
Questions to Ask During a Tarot Card Reading
Here are some of the best kinds of questions that you can ask for different kinds of readings:
Regular Tarot Questions
- What should I know so that I can change this situation?
- What is blocking me from getting what I want?
- What kind of lesson do I need to learn to get past my challenges?
- What is influencing me the most?
- What are my strengths?
- What are my weaknesses?
- What do I need to focus on right now in my life?
Tarot Card Love Reading Questions
- How can I attract someone that will help me reach my higher self?
- What stops me from finding love?
- How can I make my love stronger with my partner?
- How can I get past issues in my relationship?
- What connects me with my partner?
Tarot Card Career Reading Questions
- What job is going to be best for me?
- What is challenging me from reaching my goals?
- What should I change jobs?
- What can I do to make my career stronger?
- How can I talk better with my employer?
Tarot Card Financial Reading Questions
- What is holding me back in my finances?
- What is my feeling about money? Where did this come from?
- How can I find success?