When people break up, sometimes they complain about negative energy from the relationship. For example, the person will sometimes feel that there is fixation or obsessiveness around them, and they feel this is unhealthy.
The important psychological aspects of obsession are not just an attraction, but it is when there is energetic entwining, which is entwined with spiritual energy.
There are aspects of obsessive fixations, and these need to be understood as well as the entanglement of spiritual energy which is often times recognized and is always there. Some people will fail to understand that a romantic relationship starts with a fire of passion, and later when the relationship goes bad, it brings up drama. It can burn out and cause the relationship to fail. Sometimes we put ourselves completely in these relationships and have difficulty healing from them.
Romantic Attraction
Romantic attraction happens through nature and is an unseen magnetism that defies reason. People feel this and believe things that they usually wouldn’t.
Sometimes people see this as mysterious love, which is unreliable and incorrect. Once these ideas are accepted, the person is encouraged to become involved with someone, even if there is no real interest. Spiritual beliefs cause people to have romantic fixations, which are not always divine. Make sure you are cautious and allow time to see if your love is real.
Spiritual forces are always working to make inappropriate relationships; when you bond with these people, they can be complicated and negative. This can cause us to be ignorant and have negative energy that tricks and weakens us. This can drain us and cause us to suffer in life.
We can see that things went too fast when we sorted all of this out. From a spiritual perspective, we see that existence in this life is temporary on the planet, and we have to follow our mission of the soul. We need not spend time in unhealthy relationships and work on looking for growth and our purpose in life.
Young people sometimes follow love without thinking about things and think there is a destiny when they aren’t meant to be with that person. This means there is nothing wrong with being single, and it is not a big deal if you don’t find a romantic partner.
Too many people think that we have to be with someone to be happy, but negative energy comes in your life when you hook up with people you aren’t meant to be with.
When you begin to recover from a bad situation, you can eliminate your negative thoughts and find romantic choices that are good for you.
Pain of Rejection
Most people long for love and want to be romantic and in a sexual relationship from the beginning. But unfortunately, people are always looking for the perfect love and looking at relationships to be what they aren’t, and the relationships are not always good. This can lead to a traumatic breakup.
When we look for romance and do not give ourselves chances to find the perfect person, we will have deep spiritual and psychological feelings, which can cause us to be sad or lonely even in a relationship.
We must find changes, mature, and work within ourselves to find the right relationships. Even when things are painful, or we have been rejected, we have to figure out how not to feel this way and how to abandon those thoughts. We have to understand that when relationships aren’t healthy, there is a chance for rejection, but that is not bad. This can lead to false blame, jealousy, and mental imbalance, but we must get free of this. We need to use the Second Law of Romantic Attraction.
The Second Law of Romantic Attraction means that if one relationship isn’t right for one person, then it isn’t right for the other person in the relationship, either. So when we argue that we are suffering, we haven’t been rejected, and we need to figure out our reality and count it as a good thing.
Negative energy will come when you are with someone you shouldn’t be with.
Why Love Doesn’t Change
Girls want to have romance, and they watch things like Cinderella and think this is what love is. Other girls know that men are not easy to understand when they become adults, and romance is not normal. A generation of people must learn about real love and try to figure it out. Unfortunately, most people will go without ever figuring it out.
This can also lead to negative energy and cause women to think that men like them when they do not and men to think they can just be friends. It can also make a man think that they can understand women, and it can change a person’s point of view. Therefore, it is best not to argue with people.
We have to work on learning to communicate with our partners, which can help us not feel worthless or useless. If something bad happens, then it can cause negative energy in your life.
When a woman or man breaks up with each other, it can cause them to wonder why the person won’t change. This can cause the relationship to look dysfunctional.
The imbalance of this type of relationship causes an imbalance of power and can cause people to not be in a healthy situation. In addition, this can cause people to be emotional and can make them think that love is real even when it isn’t.
Love cannot change people from one thing to another. Nature has made love the way it is, even if we are happy or have a different opinion. No one can turn someone into something else in a relationship.
When you are with someone, they are who they are, and you need to know that before you choose to get involved in the relationship. If you don’t learn who they are, it can hurt your heart and soul and cause you to be emotional and sad.
Let it Go
If you don’t understand someone, let it go. You do not always have to understand everyone and everything that is going on around you. Even when a relationship ends, you don’t want to hear about it, and you don’t want to talk about it; you just want to understand it. A breakup can be understood by someone seeing the relationship, but it is harder for someone who has a failed relationship to see why it didn’t work out. The problem isn’t about understanding; it is about wanting to understand why they can’t work it out.
When you see what you are really seeing, you can understand the person more. Why did you want to give this person your heart? What does this experience do for you? Can you grow from this?
Something good has come from it, and you must bring closure and understand what good has come from it. Just because the relationship is over, it doesn’t mean that things have to be negative and obsessive. You will get energy from how you react, so make sure you do not react with bitterness or pity.
Relationships don’t need permission or understanding to end, and you cannot negotiate with love. Ending a relationship is not the end of the world; you have to let go so you will not be stuck in negative energy.
Life will show you what belongs to you and where you need to go. However, you will not be rewarded for having negative energy; it will just cause you to waste a lot of time.
Energy Cleansing
If you want to cleanse your energy from a bad breakup, here is what you can do:
- Get your power back-do this by removing thoughts specific to that person.
- Get energy from the former lover-do this by connecting with them in their thoughts and taking out all the energy that you left for them.
- Aura cleansing-cleanse your aura by taking baths regularly and using table salt. Cleanse yourself and allow yourself to heal.
Love is one thing that can fail, and there are no lifetime guarantees when you love someone. However, regardless of whether your relationship fails, you need positive energy and genuine love to have the right heart and joy over sorrow.