Everyone says that summer is when the time is ripe to fall in love. It may be because people go on trips and vacations and there is an air of frivolity and casualness which opens us up to new romance. But are you truly ready for a new relationship? How do you truly know?
The First Step is Forgiveness
If you hold hostility and grudges in your heart you are getting in your own way. As desperately as you want to hold on to this, it is not in your better interest. Once you have started working through the anger and blame you can purge yourself of this negative energy. And once this is gone you can focus on building a new relationship without bringing old feelings into your new romance.
Love yourself
Many, many people do not love themselves and create an aura of doubt and negativity around themselves. This can keep a new romance at bay. Much of this negativity comes from a lack of acceptance about their physical appearance. This feeling of not being good enough can lead to people settling for less than perfect romances. This will eventually led to mistrust. If you don’t trust someone you will draw in people who are actually untrustworthy. If you really want to bring a long term relationship to you, you have to love yourself. Think about how many times you tell yourself that you are not good enough. When you think this, it sticks in your brain and plays over and over again. Once you become aware of your false beliefs you can work with a therapist to help you transition into a state of self-love. You can start by nourishing your inner child. If you actually picture a child, you won’t easily be able to insult it by what you have been telling your adult self. This will remind you that you love this child and want them to feel cherished.
Don’t be afraid
Be fearless as you go about your life journey. Focus on what you want to do and don’t go into every situation as if you seeking your one true love. It has been said that if you stop looking for love, you will find it. Don’t let your fear manifest as desperation. This is a negative energy that is not only unhelpful but it will also leave you vulnerable to the wrong kind of relationship. Focus on being happy with yourself. Accept yourself and your life as it is and don’t judge yourself. This acceptance will free your spirit and this may lead to the love of your life.
Good Karma or Bad Karma
There are those who don’t particularly want or need a relationship. This may be directly caused by what their soul tells them. Their mission on this plane of existence is to work on themselves and their personal journey. Most of these souls are aware of what they want. If you think you have this kind of soul, you can consult a psychic or an astrology to fully understand what you want need.
Even though the world around you may be springing into summer with the thought of new love and romance, only you know when you ready. There is not a timeline that you must adhere to.