In the beginning, falling in love is magical and new. It is a refreshing emotion as you move towards your love. Everything in the world seems to fall away as you have found your soulmate.
But, as time goes by, this rush of love seems to disappear and you may begin to wonder if it you just imagined the rush of emotion and love. After you fall in love and move back to the day to day minutiae of your regular life, the bloom of freshness will fall away.
To keep this from happening and to maintain your love, you should nourish your relationship and your soul. This involves work.
There are a few things you can do to help keep the romance and unity in your life:
- You can turn your fights into solutions. It is a myth that all lovers have a blissful existence. Fighting doesn’t mean your relationship is bad or toxic. Fights don’t have to be obstacles. Work on the problem as a team and as a team find the solution . This will nurture your relationship by giving you a new level of honesty and clarity.
- Spend your time together nourishing your souls. In our busy lives, it is hard to find time to spend together. You can maximize the benefits of your unity by growing together spiritually. You can do this by meditating together or enjoying nature by taking a long walk. You can also explore mutual interests by watching a documentary or art film together. This effort will help you grow together mind and soul. It is important that you spend your time together constructively.
- Know each other’s energy. As you and your partner grow together, you begin to know each other on a deeper level. You are functioning well as a team and you respect each other’s intellectual growth. The next step is to become intimate with your partner’s energy field. Simply put, your personally energy is the combination of all of your levels of thought in conjunction with every other thing that makes you, you. You can get in tune with your partner’s energy by just being next to them. Try lying down with them quietly, just absorbing his energy. Share the space by being together without doing anything.
Actively tuning into each other physically, spiritually and intellectually will keep your romance fresh and alive as well as helping you both grow as human beings.