One of the most common reason why someone calls a psychic would be to their love life. Let’s get real, Wouldn’t it be great if you could just call up a psychic and have them find your soulmate for you? Or if, when you’re in the middle of an argument with your lover, you could call your psychic and have them tell you whether you should bother salvaging the relationship or not?
Actually, no. We’re all here to learn lessons in life, and we learn some of our greatest lessons through relationships – and that includes both the ecstasy and the heartbreak. Life would be sorely diminished if we didn’t find – and lose – love of our own accord.
However, although no psychic can find love for you, a talented psychic love reader can do a lot to help you navigate the dating minefield with greater success.
Working Out What You Need Right Now – and What You Don’t
Through reading your aura and sensing your energies, a good psychic should be able to pick up on your relationship needs. Perhaps you need a strong, decisive partner to lean on; perhaps you need someone who will put the fun and frivolity back into your life; perhaps you need someone who is committed to starting a family, or someone who won’t balk at your desire to travel the world.
We’re all different, and our relationship needs change as life evolves. Your psychic can help you pinpoint what state of life you’re at, and what you need a partner to bring you right now. Equally importantly, a psychic can help you figure out what you definitely do not need. Not another guy whose mother is on a pedestal, please. Oh, and not another guy who thinks the accounts are more important than your birthday.
By understanding your own unique relationship needs better, you can get a head start on the type of person most likely to click with you.
Breaking Free of Past Relationship Patterns
Unless you’ve never had a relationship before, you’re entering the dating game complete with your very own set of emotional baggage. For whatever reason, your previous relationship didn’t work out – and perhaps the one, or three, before that didn’t work out either.
With the help of a psychic, you might be surprised to find that the patterns you’ve lived through are surprisingly similar, from one relationship to the next. A good psychic will have insight into what went wrong in the past, and why – and how you can avoid making the same mistakes again.
Often in life we repeat the same cycles, over and over, until we finally learn the lesson. With the help of your psychic, you can learn this particular love lesson so much faster, opening the way towards a more successful and lasting relationship.
Finding Mr or Ms Right
OK, so you know what you need from a partner, and you know how to avoid previous mistakes – but where are you likely to find the right guy or girl for you? This is where your psychic comes into their own, with glimpse of future possibilities.
Ask for information about where you might find love. It’s unlikely that a psychic could tell you “Next Tuesday – the guy who trips over in front of you on the subway steps!” – the answers you get are more likely to be quite cryptic. However, at some point soon, you’ll find yourself in that position and things will suddenly make sense. A good psychic can help you be more aware of the kind of situations where love is likely to arise – and this can help you get one step closer towards the lasting love you’re seeking.
In fact, there are a lot of psychic frauds and scams on the internet, where some individuals claim to be “psychics”. These individuals usually deliver inaccurate information as a try to collect money from their clients. I often receive emails from people who were scam victims for fake psychics. They tell their sad stories about how they purchased a psychic reading online and their readings have never been delivered!. All they got was a generic reading or a message asking them to pay more!
Hearing these stories is really disappointing, especially when honest people are being scammed out of their money! I will provide you with some helpful tips below on how to avoid psychic scam and protect yourself against fraud.
Protect Yourself Against a Psychic Scam:
There are a number of actions you can take to protect yourself against online psychic scam and fraud. Here are just a few:
Warning signs of a psychic scam.
If the psychic tried to convince you they are genuine by telling you something vague or general about yourself (and could be true about anyone). They will also try to tell you something you mentioned earlier about yourself, or something shared on the internet, so run a quick google search on your own name and see what information available about you.
They also may offer you a “free” personalized reading for your personal details and this probably will lead to request for a payment.
They may tell you that you have been cursed, and the only way to release that curse is to pay them money to do you a spell.
Receiving an email or letter from someone claiming to be a psychic.
You may receive an email asking you to pay a small administration fee for a good luck charm to win the lottery!
Run a Google search BEFORE you purchase.
Before you take any further step and make a purchase, run a quick google search and use search terms including: psychic name & company, reviews, scams, or complaints. You will usually find negative reviews right away by running a quick Google search, if anyone has been scammed by the provider.
Read the terms and conditions and find out if your credit card is going to be charged on a regular basis, or if there is any hidden fees associated with your purchase.
Use your common sense. Follow your heart and if you feel that everything is ok, it probably is.
Are you scammed? What should you do!
I was unfortunate and have been scammed. What can I do?
Claim a refund from your provider.
Call your bank or credit union immediately to report the scam.
Check if you can gain a refund from the financial company that has taken your payment (e.g. PayPal, a bank, etc. ). PayPal has a buyer protection scheme that may be able to assist.
Post a review on the internet to warn others.
Report the scam to local authorities.
Get your personal information protected. Only pay via secure payment websites and services. Never send money, or give credit card or online account information to anyone you do not know and trust. Never dial a telephone number stated in a spam email and never reply to a spam email.
I know how it feels to get scammed by someone because I was there before. There are a lot of ethical and professional psychics out there who do a fantastic job and provide a genuine and authentic service. It is awful to think that people are being lured by unethical fake providers while there are much more positive experiences to be had.
If you are looking for an ethical and professional psychic or Tarot reader, visit any of the Tarot Associations for a list of psychics and Tarot readers. Also, have a look on personalized websites and get to know your reader first before asking for their services.
2018 is a special year for those who study numerology. It is comprised of both the number 11 (8+1+2) and the number 2. 11 is considered to be a “sacred number” in numerology, and is associated with both spirit guides and angels. It is said to give off a “sacred vibration” and represents an alignment between the spiritual world and the material world.
11 is often seen more frequently when a person is on the cusp of a spiritual awakening, being considered sacred and having a sacred vibration. It’s one of the most powerful of all the numbers. This year is made even more special because we haven’t experienced the number 11 in year form since 2009.
The number 2 represents building, growth and also partnership. If there is any aspect of your life that could be strengthened and built up, this is the perfect time to team up with one person, or a community to work on it. The number 2 is all about building sturdy and secure foundations and partnerships, whether they be for business, your aspirations, or your personal relationships.
2017 represented a time for new beginnings and personal growth. However, in 2018, we’re being challenged to help and work with others in order to grow. It’s a good time to think about how your calling and your aspirations will affect other people, and about how to use them to make the world a better place. Working together with people who are also experiencing a spiritual awakening will ensure you’re benefiting from the optimal impact of the vibrational frequencies given off by the number 11.
The numbers 11 and 2 will affect everyone, but you also have a personal number, as well. Your number combines with 11 and 2 and gives you a more personalized 2018 insight. To find your number, add your birth date and birth month together, then add 11. If you end up with a double digit, add those two numbers together. (This may need to be repeated until you get a single digit.) The number that you’re left with is your personalized number.
For instance, my birth date is 05, and my birth month is 06.
This means that my personal year number is 4.
Your personal year number and what it means for you
Personal # 1
Just like in 2017, the theme of 2018 for you is: new beginnings. It’s a great time for you to try something new, whether it’s something fun, a new tool for your spiritual toolbox, a new job, or a new business. It’s also a good time to work on yourself, finding your independence, and working on self-development and spirituality. This is the year to create a new you.
Personal # 2
You are going to be very in-tune with the vibrations from this year. The year will be centered around socialization and partnerships, whether they be business or romantic. Find like-minded people who build you up and encourage you. These people are your “tribe” and will make great partners.
Personal # 3
This is a good year to project your thoughts and feelings. You’re going to feel very motivated to share your story or truth with the world. So, it’s a good time to start that blog, journal or book that you’ve been meaning to write. It’s a good time to use any form of creative outlet to express yourself because you’ll be focused on finding and sharing your truth. This will also be a good year to strengthen your intuition and learn to listen to it.
Personal # 4
Work and responsibility are strong themes in your life this year. Apply yourself to those ideas that you’ve been keeping to yourself. With a little motivation, it will be easier to put your plans into motion this year. You’ll probably be working hard this year, but you’ll also be connected to your spiritual side. Take advantage of this opportunity to get in touch with your intuitive nature and learn to trust your intuition.
Personal # 5
The themes for your year are relaxation and fun. You’ve worked hard and you deserve a break. Traveling is a good idea because it would not only be fun, but insightful. Find a place to travel that is new to you, and therefore an adventure. If you start to feel too stressed out, spending some time in nature should leave you feeling refreshed. It’s also a good time to ask for a raise, or to ask for what you’re worth. But, remember to relax, overall.
Personal # 6
Your keywords for this year are “family”, and “personal health”. Having your family around is going to feel massively important to you. So, work on repairing any damaged relationships you have with family members. Your health will also benefit from the vibrations associated with this year. It’s a great time to start working out, eating well and paying attention to your mental health.
Personal # 7
This year will bring you a lot of spiritual and emotional growth. You’ll likely experience a lot of new thoughts and philosophies. Your belief system may even get a complete overhaul. And, you’ll likely want to learn new things, so research something you’re interested in, take a class, or simply learn something new. This is also a great time to learn to develop your intuition or psychic gifts. Above all, remember to keep an open mind.
Personal # 8
This is a good year to get things done. You’ve already done a lot of work in the personal growth department, and you likely know the steps needed to achieve your goals. You’re highly likely to achieve whatever you set out to do this year, so when it comes to your goals, aim high. Although you have cosmic help and luck, it will be vitally important to remember your past and stay grounded in order to prevent mistakes or bad outcomes.
Personal # 9
This will be a year of endings for you, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. This can be very empowering, especially if you put an end to things in your life that just aren’t working for you anymore. Be kind to yourself this year, as some endings may not be easy. But, remember: for every thing that comes to an end, the potential for something new is also there.
“Take every chance you have, so you won’t regret it!” or, “I shouldn’t have let that happen…” You know the process. You do something, then you realize you did something you wish you didn’t do.
Maybe you broke someone else’s trust, and now you’re overwhelmed with guilt. Perhaps you compromised on your principles in some way, and now you’re terrified that your world will come crashing down. Regardless of what you did, you can feel your anxiety like a sack of red-hot bowling balls surgically implanted in your gut. (Too dramatic? Perhaps. But regret is rarely reasonable!)
It’s the dreaded, “Oh no! What was I thinking?” moment when you know you’ve done something you shouldn’t have, and you see only two possible outcomes: either, “I might not be able to fix this!” or, “I’m certainly going to lose something important!”
Both of those things might be true. In fact, they often are. Actions do have consequences. We do lose things, all through life. Nothing is permanent, not even the most secure relationship. But none of this has to be catastrophic.
Sometimes, losing one thing leaves you open to something else. It may be a lesson that helps you become more effective and happier in the future. Or, it could be a new possibility that you never even considered the possibility of actually seeking, like that dream you put off to go work that job you just lost. Then again, it’s possible that you won’t discern any benefit right away; maybe you’ll wish you went a different way, grieve what you lost, and then eventually let it go and move on.
The point is, you will eventually be able to let go and move on.
And because you’re a strong, smart, capable person, you will certainly find ways to make this new direction meaningful for you. You will make up for what you lost by gaining something equally important in the aftermath, whether it’s a new understanding of your strengths, a new idea of who you want to be, or a new opportunity to try again, but a little wiser this time around.
It’s hard to think that way when you feel your dream job slipping through your fingers, or you miss someone who made your life fuller than it could possibly be on your own. What’s important to remember is that no matter what changes or what slips away, you can still do something meaningful and fulfilling from right where you are. That’s how to let go of regrets when they start overwhelming your sense of optimism and possibility. Need more ideas to let your regret fade away?
Here are some positive affirmations that may help you let go of regret.
Don’t even allow regrets. Make each decision with the fullness of heart and mind. Try to view mistakes as lessons learned; they are not meant to be regrets. Do differently next time, and there will be nothing to regret. Try not to think “what if.” Live by all your heart, not by your head.
It takes time and patience, but try to think of all of the positives that came out of the situation. Trust that each experience is a lesson in the journey you’ve chosen and embarked upon. Embrace both the light and the dark, and trust that everybody is exactly where they should be on their journey in this life.
Don’t attach yourself to your emotions. Breathe, reflect, learn and forgive yourself. Recognize the emotion, let it go, and move on.
Regret is a waste of time. Don’t hold on to it. Find something better to replace it. We may come to regret the time we spent regretting, unless we’ve learned from the regrets and focus to make a more centered and peaceful now, where we strive to create fewer regrets and more love.
Having some regrets may not be a bad thing. They can make you strive for better. If you never had them, you wouldn’t grow spiritually. It’s your preconceptions of regrets that determine how they affect you, positively or negatively.
Regrets are visitors in the guest house of the mind. Like all feelings, they come and they go. And sometimes, life gives you circumstances that simply have to be grieved. There’s no way around that. So feel it, review it, learn it, shed it.
Every time a regret crosses your mind, set your mind instead on something positive in your life. Every bad decision can be rectified, depending on how much work you’re willing to put into it.
Every feeling has a purpose related to survival. Regret can be useful. You can’t hope to change this fact, because it’s simply part of life. You can instead learn to deal with feelings of regret by reflecting on them, then learning from mistakes, then finally letting go.
Many people strive to be kind. They strive to be caring and compassionate. Others do not put kindness and compassion first. These people may have bad habits that make them annoying or irritating to the point that no one wants to be near them. You may have these traits and not know.
Here are a few that you might want to be aware of:
1) You appear self-centered
This is a hard one to be aware of. If you focus on yourself, and find yourself the most fascinating topic to the point where you aren’t listening to anyone else, stop. No one wants to be around some who only cares about themselves.
2) You are only concerned with outer beauty
Most of us know that to be truly beautiful, your attraction has to come from your heart and soul as well as your body. Physical appearance isn’t the only thing that matters. Look deep inside and see who you truly are. It’s not to late to become truly beautiful.
3) Everything is a contest
You seem to be in constant competition with everyone. Do you have to be the one on top, to the point whenever anyone celebrates a victory, you have to top that? If this sounds familiar, it’s time to celebrate someone else for a change.
4) You see your friends as competition
If you find yourself in constant battle with your friends to the point where you seem to be stabbing people in the back rather turning the other cheek, it is time to reevaluate your friendships.
5) Your importance is in question.
It is extremely unattractive to constantly question that if you are important or valued in your peer group. If you consistently want to know why you aren’t the center of attention, get over it. Face the fact that you are not the center of the universe.
Everyone in a group of friends should be considered equal. It is very off-putting for one to always to decide and control. If that is you, it’s not very attractive.
7) Dishonesty is your policy
It should go with out saying but you should always be honest with your friends. Lying and cheating is not honest behavior. And it is true that honesty is the best policy
Impoliteness and embarrassing behavior, particularly in public can definitely drive your friends away from you. This is not to say that you can’t have disagreements or mild conflict, but constant rudeness is in excusable.
If a friend calls on you, do you help? If you can’t ever be counted on to follow through or help, you are not being a good friend, especially if you expect others to help you out whenever you need it.
It’s hard to be positive every minute of every day, but if you are consistently putting others down or looking askance at activities, you could be pushing others away.
Ideal person, beautiful and smart yet unlucky in love?
There’s a lot of beautiful women who reported a history of bad relationships: unfaithful boyfriends or husbands, frank physical or verbal abuse by their partners, or a loss of interest by the men from whom they most wanted that interest. There are lots of reasons for this. Here are a few:
1. If you have come from a home where you were neglected, criticized, or abused, your self worth is likely to be less than what it should be. Recall Marilyn Monroe: famous, beautiful, and talented, but insecure and unlucky in love. A woman with the background I’ve just described often looks for approval from someone who unconsciously reminds her of the person who failed to love her as a child. It is as if the unconscious mind is still looking for the thing that was never achieved before (love or approval), and it only has value if it can come from a similar kind of person. Of course, since the parent in question was neglectful or critical, it is likely the chosen substitute will be that way as well, providing the woman with another chance to prove herself. Unfortunately, given her poor choice of a partner, the sought-for affection and approval often are no more likely than they were in childhood.
2. Whether male or female, if you moved too often as a kid, the insecurity of being the new kid on the block is hard to shake. You may also feel the never-ending need to prove yourself. Once again, insecurity can lead to choosing someone less good and kind than you deserve.
3. Are you too needy? Are you too dependent upon your boyfriend or husband to make decisions for you? Are you unable to support yourself financially? Can you bear to be without a boyfriend for very long? Do you need regular reassurance you are “the one and only?” This gets old quickly. While that reassurance will temporarily calm your fears, your friend will almost surely tire of it, leaving you less secure if you don’t ask again for a sign of his devotion, and him feeling put-upon if you do. As with a number of the concerns mentioned above, therapy is suggested if your self-worth requires the presence of an escort along with constant bolstering from him; and a tendency to lose your sense of self in the relationship, forget about your friends when you are with a romantic partner, and give-in to your new love for fear he will otherwise leave you.
4. Is your beauty (or sex) all you believe you have to offer? There are tons of gorgeous, sexy women out there and, unlike you, they won’t age! (Or at least, that will be the way it seems, since, as you get older, there will be a new cohort of young females who eventually will look preferable in purely physical terms). Although men can be pretty primitive in their response to the physical characteristics of women, qualities like wit, kindness, intelligence, good humor, and integrity grow in their value to all but the most unenlightened men. As someone once said, “Beauty fades, but stupid is forever.”
5. If a man shows interest in you too early, are you turned off? It’s true that there is an element of gamesmanship in dating and mating, but don’t choose the intrigue of a man who is hard to get and miss the devotion and decency of some others.
6. Are you too entitled? Do you believe your boyfriend or husband should keep you on a pedestal, shower you with gifts, and buy the best house in just the right neighborhood? Do you value money, status, and material things too much? If you do, a well-grounded man will tire of you or avoid you. One who is less secure or less enlightened may simply become weary of your demands for “more,” and instead seek a woman who is less self-involved and shallow.
7. Are you a good listener? I hope so, because relationships demand this of both parties. If you aren’t, your partner will not feel understood by you. Unless you respect the differences between yourself and your lover (which very likely were initially attractive), you will find the relationship works poorly or not at all.
8. As I’ve said before on my blog, sexual interest and enthusiasm are necessary parts of a good relationship. Abandon them at your own risk. However, this is not to suggest you should have sex simply because your partner wants (or worse) demands it.
9. Do you allow yourself to be demeaned in public by the man you are with? I always ask marital couples who seek therapy what initially attracted them to each other. When I asked this of one male I recall, he said, “She ‘shows’ well,” about his physically attractive wife. The tone made it clear this was a demeaning statement, not a compliment. Indeed, the man might as easily have said the same thing about a show dog or show horse. The wife made no objection to the comment. A more self-respecting woman probably would have walked out of the room.
10. Do you have a drinking or drug problem? Does your male friend? How do you know you don’t? Just because everyone you know seems to drink about as much as you do, doesn’t mean that you can avoid the alcohol or drug-driven downside of heartache, arguments, and a bad end to the relationship. Read up on alcohol abuse to get a sense of where you stand: alcoholscreening dot org
11. Do you tend to wind up with men you feel sorry for? Not a good choice. Do you give in to men who pursue you relentlessly, even though you aren’t enormously attracted to them? Again, this is not destined to lead to a good match.
12. Do you believe you can change the man you are with? It is unlikely this will happen, or, if it does, that the project of change will be accomplished even within a few years. As the old therapy joke goes, “How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?” Answer: “One, but the light bulb has to want to be changed.” Take a measure of who you are with while you are still capable of being objective, which means your evaluation needs to be done early in the relationship. Once your heart takes over and you are in love, rational judgments are either too late or altogether impossible.
13. As a father to two career-minded, married daughters, I applaud independent women who forge careers. But just as a man needs to remember his wife and children need attention, so do women in high-powered careers need to live by the same rules. If you are neglectful of your partner, mentally or physically exhausted by the work you do between 9 and 5, and consumed by issues related to your vocation, the relationship is at risk.
14. Are you too critical? If you experienced or observed a fair amount of criticism growing up, it is easy to become like the person who did this. Indeed, we are often at risk of becoming the thing we hate, or of normalizing the unfortunate characteristics we observed in our parents because we had no other family experience to compare it to. Compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance are needed in any good relationship, and in large quantities.
15. Do you expect your boyfriend or husband to fulfill your life and make you happy? No one can really do that for you, although having a companion can be worthwhile and important. But a relationship will not solve all problems or make life perfect. Don’t expect it to. The weight of that expectation on your lover is more than most relationships can bear.
16. One final point, and a sad one. If you are smart and beautiful, and especially if you are professionally accomplished, there are a fairly large number of men out there who will be intimidated by your competence, intelligence, authority, and attractiveness. As a result, you might have to generate more than the usual amount of effort to find a good match. Unfair, but true.
In closing, I should say that making a good choice of mate, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, is challenging. But there are a lot of good people out there (albeit fewer men than women), so if your history shows a pattern of failed choices, its best to look in the mirror and ask why. And, if you can’t come up with an answer or change your pattern even though you are aware of repeating the same mistakes, therapy often helps.
Is it possible to fall in love with someone before we even meet them? Possibly, especially when you consider the circumstance of having an instant dislike for someone. Love is indeed based on our latent intuition. How does this intuition work?
What is romantic intuition?
It’s not a big mystery. All of our lives we have been building on our past experiences and former relationships. This is layered with our personal backgrounds, both social and familial. These layers put is the frame of mind with which we meet potential partners.
When we meet someone who clicks with our background requirements. We feel drawn to them. If we also find this person physically attractive, we can think of this as love at first sight.
This immediate reaction does not necessarily mean that the attraction will grow into a deep and lasting love. True love involves growing with your partner as the both of you bloom and grow. As you get to know one another, you will grow closer. The initial attraction helps you fit together from the beginning.
Can you have love without the initial intuition. Probably not. While few people are lucky enough to know someone before they fall in love, it is even rarer to fall deeply in love without having the initial pull or attraction to them.
Some acknowledge that their pursuit of perfection has left them lost and lonely. They have turned down potential lovers because they don’t fit their image of perfection. While feeling that you know someone before you fall in love is rare, there is no chance in finding love if you seek the ideal that is only found in romance novels. This only leads to loneliness and time wasted .
Your time is better spent nurturing your current relationship to meet your ideal. The ideal can be created.
Because no true love is easily found, we should not disqualify what we see in the everyday. A real love does not occur out of pure feelings. It takes time and examination. This does not mean to overthink things. Pay attention to your heart as well as your head.
Have you ever had headaches when you’re around certain people for no apparent reason? Then, you’ll find out that headache goes away when that person’s far enough? Or do experience the same thing with tiredness-whether that person is in front of you or on the phone? Do you get waves of anxiety when you are in crowds? When someone you care about is suffering, do you feel their pain inside your own body?
If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you may be experiencing the effects of hyper psychic sensitivity.
Cutting edge science has proven that when you look at another person across a room, just the mere act of your observation affects the way the cells interact in that person’s body. There is also research which proves we have the ability to influence other people’s emotions and thoughts (and to be influenced by others), regardless of our physical contact with them.
Psychic Sensitivity – According To Top Scientists, We All Experience This
Have you ever felt someone looking at you while sitting in traffic, and then turned your head to catch someone staring at you? This is just a minor example of psychic sensitivity, phenomena which can sometimes occur on a much deeper level, and sometimes with more profound effects. Sometimes this sensitivity has its benefits. For example, if you meet a new potential mate or business partner, it’s good to be able to sense that person’s true motivations on a psychic level before you make any decisions concerning that person.
On the other hand, if psychic sensitivity isn’t harnessed and under your control, at times, it can be more of a curse than a blessing. One of the most intense examples of psychic over-sensitivity I’ve encountered was a gentleman who couldn’t shake anyone else’s hand because he would get psychic flashes in his own mind of all the trauma the person had experienced in their life. As you can imagine, this was quite painful for this gentleman to experience.
Through various methods, I was able to teach this man how to control the ability, to turn it on and off like an electrical switch. He also was able to filter what psychic information he received when he was using the ability.
This is much better than shutting the ability off altogether, an ability that could be used to make his life easier and maybe help some other people along the way.
Psychic sensitivity, when managed properly, can be a powerful tool to help you transform your life – with relationships, your career, business, and personal awareness.
In his book “Think and Grow Rich”, Napoleon Hill referred to intuition, or psychic sensitivity, as the “Temple of Wisdom”. He called it the most powerful aspect of our subconscious mind. It’s what separates the genius from the average person.
Although over the years I’ve taught more people how to strengthen psychic sensitivity, I’ve encountered other situations where students needed help with controlling psychic over-sensitivity. A more common example is individuals who dream at night about all the murders occurring in their local city. When someone is killed, especially violently, it puts out a strong “psychic charge” which is easy to pick up if you don’t have control over your internal awareness. As you can imagine, this can create quite a bit of discomfort in one’s life.
Methods For Controlling Psychic Sensitivity
If you experience psychic over-sensitivity, the good news is that you don’t have to be a “psychic sponge” for the rest of your life, soaking up other people’s stuff. The catch is that you may have to do a little work to get control over your psychic sensitivity. If you are experiencing this, even occasionally, here are some beginning level techniques that should help you to get control of your experience.
The first method has to do with learning how to control your curiosity. Curiosity has a strong influence over what information you receive psychically. For example, if you are at a hospital walking by rooms of people who are sick, and you allow yourself to get curious about what is wrong with each person, you are likely to get “psychic feedback” from each person. If you are highly psychically sensitive, your may feel the pain of each person in your own body.
When you catch yourself getting curious about something which will not benefit you to know, immediately shift your focus to something more productive. For example, if you see an ambulance racing by with sirens roaring, if you ask yourself “I wonder what’s wrong with the person in the ambulance?” immediately shift your thinking to something like “I send healing to whomever that person is and now, what do I need to do today to make a better life for myself and the people I care about?” From there, put your attention on what it is that you need to do next (make a phone call, sort some paperwork, run an errand, etc).
Control Your Psychic Ability – Simply Keep Your Mind Out Of Other People’s Business
The next technique, which requires a bit more practice, involves controlling what many spiritual disciplines refer to as your “energy field.” Start by finding a quiet room where you can practice undisturbed for a few minutes. Sit down and get yourself relaxed.
Now pick a simple object in the room which is a few feet from your body, such as a doorknob. Now close your eyes and imagine being right next to the door knob, as if you were a fly sitting on top of it. Now imagine being a little point at the ridge of your nose inside your body. Now imagine being on the doorknob again, as if everything you are is at that location. Shift back and forth from being at the doorknob to being at the ridge of your nose for a few minutes.
With some occasional practice, you should start to feel a “shift” when moving back and forth. The eventual goal is to be able to “energetically shift” your awareness completely inside of your body. This is good to do when walking through a crowd of people – it will allow you to pick up less psychic garbage from those around you. You can look around at people, while at the same time holding your “energy field” into your body.
Of course, if you want to get a psychic sense of someone or something, you can shift your “energy field” onto that person/object. From there you pay attention to any new emotions, thoughts, etc you are feeling. With some practice, you can use this technique as a powerful method for attaining psychic based information for other people, objects, and events.
These are beginning level techniques, but they can be very helpful if you are too psychically sensitive at times.
The Most Import Thing – Keep Practicing And Pay Attention To The Results You Achieve Through These Exercises
The important thing is to start taking action. This is what I personally decided to do many years ago – I had no interest in just sitting there being a victim to circumstance to so many things like this in life.
I took it upon myself to study in-person with a formal Military Intelligence Project (US Air Force) that was centered around developing and controlling psychic ability. I studied with the founder of this project for about 15 years.
Then, I ended up working with literally the most famous psychic in the world, I gained so much training and experience under my belt over the years that it just seemed selfish to not pass this on to the people who need it. This is what let to me developing the Life Mastery Program
The point I’m making is that if you want change, do whatever you have to do to get this change.
Now you may not need to go to the extremes that I have, but if you want change, I would suggest doing something about it instead of just “sitting in it.”
As many of my students have over the years, you may be able to achieve major control over your psychic sensitivity with just a little bit of training and practice.
Numerology as an occult science has it roots in India. Thought to be inspired by Divine Revelation, they made scientific discoveries that built and advanced their culture. Their conclusions in both astrology and numerology have been verified by modern science.
India pioneered numerous discoveries in the science of Astronomy. Namely, the solstices, ecliipses, and the precession of the equinoxes. Modern astronomers still marvel at how the Ancient civilization was able to make the necessary calculations without modern technology.
We believe they were reacting to revelations revealed to them during states of higher conciousness.
Science Tries to Understand
Records dating back for millenia reveal these numerical discoveries in works of poetry and other versed writings. Modern science has spent centuries just making the calculations to verify the work of the Indian wise men. How did they achieve this without so much as a calculator?
In the Vedas
The Ancient Indians studied their canonical sacred texts, the Vedas, to draw conclusions about the universe. This is how they discovered the link between the numbers, planets, alphabet, and names. These findings form the basis of Numerology.
Numerology is useful when you are naming a variety of things. From your business to your pets, a properly chosen name can impart luck by raising your vibrations. The goal is to vibrate in tune with your lucky numbers and lucky stars. Your lucky planets are set at birth. Learn what they are and apply this knowledge in all aspects of your life.
Lucky Famous People
When you look at celebrity personalities, they often have lucky names that translate to positive numerology. Stage names and nicknames can work the same way. Changing your name may be all that stands between you and good fortune!
Lucky Names and Numerology
Research and use lucky names when you have a new baby or a new business. Being in tune with your lucky planets can set you up for lasting success on your new venture. Strive to use names that vibe well with each other and with your own name to maximize your vibrations.
Other Numerology Resources
One definitive resource for those looking to study numerology in depth is the book Numerology by Cheiro. Numerology is a fascinating branch of the occult sciences, and we can only hope to understand it as thoroughly as the Indus River Valley civilization did.
When it comes to being successful and winning at things in life, it’s been said that it’s because one had the heart and bravery to make it happen. And with it comes to losing and missing out on things you’ve wanted or desired even when you possess the talent and skills to make it happen, it’s because of limiting beliefs. So, what exactly is meant by a limiting belief? Limiting beliefs means a way of thinking that constrains us…limits us from succeeding or getting to a better place or position in our lives, jobs, or relationships. And unfortunately, these limiting beliefs do exactly what they imply by their name…they greatly limit us. Here are a few examples of limiting beliefs to look out for and be aware of so that you may try to determine them and work on improving your psyche so as not to let these limiting beliefs be so limiting.
Limiting belief of “I do/I don’t”:
Most of the time, we tend to define ourselves by what we do or don’t do. This could mean what you do for a living or what you don’t do when it comes to a relationship. The point is, in limiting yourself to a specific “I do” or “I don’t,” you aren’t opening yourself up to new possibilities.
Limiting belief of “I can’t”:
Much of our life, we base things on the premise of what we can or cannot do without even giving it a second thought. If we think we can’t sing without even attempting to try a few notes or take a few lessons, then we are limiting ourselves greatly. Because of this limiting belief of “I can’t,” we think are abilities are limited and we can’t learn something new.
Limiting Belief of “I must/I mustn’t”:
Values, rules, norms, and laws constrain our thoughts of what we must or mustn’t do. We feel bound by these constraints. However, not all of these constraints are always mandatory, thus limiting us and holding us back as a limiting belief. For instance, if you think you must clean your house every single day with no exception, that deprives you of time you could be spending doing something else more enjoyable or productive.
Limiting Belief of “I am/am not”:
Thinking that you are or are not something can definitely keep you from achieving new and exciting things, whether it be a new profession or even a new relationship. For example, you may conclude that “I am an artist” and therefore conclude that you then are not good at mathematics and science or manual labor. Or perhaps you’re frustrated with the subject of mathematics and therefore determine “I am not intelligent.” When you limit yourself to being something or not being something, you’re limiting the belief that you can’t be something else.
Limiting Belief of “Others are/will”:
We often judge ourselves against the abilities and accomplishments of others around us. And this can be severely limiting. If we think others are more capable or superior to us, then we’ll never try to challenge them or better ourselves. If you can’t get out of the mindset of comparing yourself to what others are doing or saying, then you’ll always be held to the limiting belief that you’ll never be as good as them.
A number of factors help contribute to our limiting beliefs in society. Experience, education, and faulty logic are just a few examples that help hold us back. We use excuses and fear to stay within the realm of these limiting beliefs because we’re afraid of what change may bring if we are actually able to break free from the cycle of limiting ourselves. Just remember, that in order to free yourself from these limiting beliefs, first you much recognize them. Then you can act accordingly and perhaps gradually and finally change what you believe in yourself.