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How To Have a Happy Life

Happy Life

Do you live a happy life or wish to live a happy life? Aren’t you living a happy life and just don’t know it? Do you even know what makes you happy? Maybe there are some things you’d like to change about your life, but you don’t know where to begin. If you’re like most people, your life could be happier, and I’m here to show you how. So check out my secrets for a happier life and start living a life you love today!

  • Take Note of What Makes You Happy and Unhappy

First, take some time and think about the things you do. What makes you happy? What makes you unhappy? Sometimes people do things because they think they have to, but if they’re unhappy doing these things, they should consider doing them less or not at all. So when you realize something makes you unhappy, make a mental note to do less of it or stop doing it all together if you can. When you realize something makes you happy, make a mental note to do more of it for a happier life.

  • Where You Are and Who You’re With

It’s not just about what you’re doing. It’s also about where you are and who you’re with. Look around you. Do you feel happier here than in other places? If you do, spend more time there. If you don’t, find another spot that makes you feel good. Look at the person you’re with. Do they make you happier than other people you’ve spent time with? If they do, spend more time with them. If they don’t, spend little or no time with them. This concept may not seem like a secret to you, but you’d be surprised how many people fall down the rabbit hole of unhappiness because they don’t do the things that make them happy, go to the places that make them happy or spend time with the people who make them happy. Good places and good people make for a happier life.

  • A Happy Home

When you think about your home, does it make you smile? Or does it frustrate and aggravate you? “There’s no place like home,” but if thinking about your home doesn’t bring a smile to your face, then it may be time to change something about it. If moving isn’t an option, you can still do many things to make your home happier. First, give your home a good cleaning. Get rid of old clothes and old furniture. Get rid of gifts from people who are no longer in your life. Paint the walls a bright color and start a garden. Do whatever you can to create a home environment that makes you happy. A happier home is part of a happier life.

  • A Happier Job

Do you enjoy what you do for a living? Do you feel excited every morning while you get ready for work? How about your boss? Are they kind and fair or micromanaging tyrants? You spend a lot of time at work, so it’s important for you to be happy there. If you love your job, there’s no need to change it to be happier, but you should do something about it if you don’t love it. First, look for a new and better job. If corporate life isn’t for you, look for jobs where you can work from home. Or, consider opening your own business and working for yourself. If none of these ideas is an option, think about ways to make your personal life more fulfilling so work issues bother you less. Then, if you have something to look forward to after a hard day of work, you’ll live a happier life.

  • Your Happiness Meter

If your happiness meter is low, try these quick fixes: You can dance, sing, make music, make love or play an instrument. You can watch a sunset with a loved one or get a four-legged companion. You can start eating better and exercising—just get moving and be active. Remember to be grateful for what you already have. Gratefulness is the key to a happier life. And learn to forgive—yourself and others. It’s time to get happier!

If you still feel stuck, you need a personal reading. I’m always here to help. Call me, and I’ll get you on the path to a happier life! You have the ability to make the decision to change your surroundings, your social circle, your attitude, and your life immediately.

Why Relationships in This Era Usually Failed


If you’re struggling in your relationship, chances are… you’ll blame yourself but take it easy as it may not be your fault. Yes, you can blame modern technology, which benefits your life in many ways but could be hurting your romantic life.

Here are seven modern romantic pitfalls and how to avoid them:

  1. Dramatic Advertisements
    You know those really insane ads that use high drama to sell you something? Whether it’s a cup of coffee or a watch, these ads go to extremes to prove that your life could be better. And you’re so used to seeing it that you start to believe your life has to be just as dramatic and extreme. The truth is that the best relationships have their mundane and even boring periods, and that’s okay. It’s the price you pay for security and stability.
  2. Instant Gratification
    We rarely have to wait long for anything these days. We can get a pizza delivered in under 30 minutes, so giving a relationship time to improve seems unreasonable. However, perfect love takes time to achieve and constantly evolves. Therefore, great relationships are void of instant gratification.
  3. Social Media Blasting
    Do you turn to social media when you’re fighting with your partner? Perhaps you do it to gain support or just feel like publically shaming them for wronging you. It’s a mistake. Instead, keep your tiffs private and give your partner the opportunity to make things right before putting them on blast. Once you put something on the Internet, it stays there forever.
  4. Texting, Not Talking
    Love is an all-sense experience. It needs to be heard, seen, tasted, touched, and smelled. However, a good portion of couples prefer to communicate via text. The problem is that the meaning and sentiment of their words get lost. Texting is an impersonal way to communicate, even if you use emojis. If you have something important to say, it’s better to call them. Even better than a call is a face-to-face meeting.
  5. Multitasking
    You may think you’re listening intently to your partner vent about their day while you’re checking social media or texting on your phone, but you’re not. Not only are you not giving your partner the attention they deserve, but you’re also not paying close enough attention to whatever you’re doing on your phone. Our modern society prizes multitasking, but some things deserve your full attention—especially your relationship. Put the phone down. Better yet, have a technology curfew every night so you can focus on other important things.
  6. Sex First, Love Later
    Some dating apps normalize casual sex to the point where many people have sex first before falling in love. That’s fine if a hookup is all you’re looking for. But some people actually want to have a relationship and are investing emotions into strangers. Sex is easy; love is not. So if you always lead with sex, you may not find the love you want.
  7. Fear of Dependence
    Some people worry that falling in love will cause them to lose their independence. As a result, when in a relationship, they don’t spend nearly enough time with their partner as a team. If you feel your relationship hinders your personal growth, you must look at love differently. Healthy relationships are between two people who navigate their individual journeys together.

Take the Hard Road

Think about everything your parents and grandparents did to find and keep love. Your journey is much easier in many ways. The effort they made translated to more risk but also greater commitment. The same is true today. The more you put into something, the more you’ll fight to keep it, and the more effort you’ll receive in return from a partner. Just because there are easier options doesn’t make them better.

Find Your Lifetime Partner with a Psychic

Lifetime Partner

One of the most common reasons someone calls a psychic would be their love life. Let’s get real. Wouldn’t it be great if you could just call up a psychic and have them find your soulmate for you? Or, when you’re in the middle of an argument with your lover, you could call your psychic and have them tell you whether you should bother salvaging the relationship.

Actually, no. We’re all here to learn lessons in life, and we learn some of our greatest lessons through relationships – and that includes both the ecstasy and the heartbreak. Life would be sorely diminished if we didn’t find – and lose – love of our own accord.

However, although no psychic can find love for you, a talented psychic love reader can do a lot to help you navigate the dating minefield with greater success.

Working Out What You Need Right Now – and What You Don’t

Through reading your aura and sensing your energies, a good psychic should be able to pick up on your relationship needs. For example, perhaps you need a strong, decisive partner to lean on; perhaps you need someone who will put the fun and frivolity back into your life; perhaps you need someone who is committed to starting a family or someone who won’t balk at your desire to travel the world.

We’re all different, and our relationship needs to change as life evolves. Your psychic can help you pinpoint what state of life you’re in and what you need a partner to bring you right now. Equally importantly, a psychic can help you determine what you do not need. Not another guy whose mother is on a pedestal, please. Oh, and not another guy who thinks the accounts are more important than your birthday.

By understanding your own unique relationship needs better, you can get a head start on the type of person most likely to click with you.

Breaking Free of Past Relationship Patterns

Unless you’ve never had a relationship before, you’re entering the dating game with your very own emotional baggage. For whatever reason, your previous relationship didn’t work out – and perhaps the one, or three, before that didn’t work out either.

With the help of a psychic, you might be surprised to find that the patterns you’ve lived through are surprisingly similar from one relationship to the next. A good psychic will have insight into what went wrong in the past and why – and how you can avoid making the same mistakes again.

Often in life, we repeat the same cycles, over and over, until we finally learn the lesson. But, with the help of your psychic, you can learn this particular love lesson so much faster, opening the way toward a more successful and lasting relationship.

Finding Mr or Ms. Right

OK, so you know what you need from a partner and how to avoid previous mistakes – but where are you likely to find the right guy or girl for you? This is where your psychic comes into their own, with a glimpse of future possibilities.

Ask for information about where you might find love. It’s unlikely that a psychic could tell you, “Next Tuesday – the guy who trips over in front of you on the subway steps!” – the answers you get are more likely to be quite cryptic. However, at some point soon, you’ll find yourself in that position, and things will suddenly make sense. A good psychic can help you be more aware of the kind of situations where love is likely to arise – and this can help you get one step closer towards the lasting love you’re seeking.

How to Protect Yourself Against Psychic Scam?

Psychic Scam

In fact, there are a lot of psychic frauds and scams on the internet, where some individuals claim to be “psychics.” These individuals usually deliver inaccurate information as they try to collect money from their clients. I often receive emails from people who were scam victims for fake psychics. They tell their sad stories about how they purchased a psychic reading online, and their readings have never been delivered! All they got was a generic reading or a message asking them to pay more!

Hearing these stories is really disappointing, especially when honest people are being scammed out of their money! Therefore, I will provide some helpful tips below on avoiding psychic scams and protecting yourself against fraud.

Protect Yourself Against a Psychic Scam:

There are a number of actions you can take to protect yourself against online psychic scams and fraud. Here are just a few:

  • If the psychic tried to convince you they are genuine by telling you something vague or general about yourself (and could be true about anyone). They will also try to tell you something you mentioned earlier about yourself, or something shared on the internet, so run a quick google search on your own name and see what information is available about you.
  • They also may offer you a “free” personalized reading for your personal details, which will probably lead to a payment request.
  • They may tell you that you have been cursed, and the only way to release that curse is to pay them money to do you a spell.
  • Receiving an email or letter from someone claiming to be a psychic.
  • You may receive an email asking you to pay a small administration fee for a good luck charm to win the lottery!
  • Run a Google search BEFORE you purchase.
  • Before you take any further steps and make a purchase, run a quick google search and use search terms including psychic name & company, reviews, scams, or complaints. You will usually find negative reviews immediately by running a quick Google search if the provider scammed anyone.
  • Read the terms and conditions and find out if your credit card will be charged regularly or if there are any hidden fees associated with your purchase.
  • Use your common sense. Follow your heart, and if you feel everything is ok, it probably is.

Are you scammed? What should you do?

I was unfortunate and have been scammed. What can I do?

  • Claim a refund from your provider.
  • Call your bank or credit union immediately to report the scam.
  • Check if you can gain a refund from the financial company that has taken your payment (e.g., PayPal, a bank, etc. ). PayPal has a buyer protection scheme that may be able to assist.
  • Post a review on the internet to warn others.
  • Report the scam to local authorities.
  • Get your personal information protected. Only pay via secure payment websites and services. Never send money, or give credit card or online account information to anyone you do not know and trust. Never dial a telephone number stated in a spam email, and never reply to a spam email.

To conclude…

I know how it feels to get scammed by someone because I was there before. However, many ethical and professional psychics out there do a fantastic job and provide genuine and authentic service. It is awful to think that people are being lured by unethical fake providers while there are many more positive experiences to be had.

If you are looking for an ethical and professional psychic or Tarot reader, visit any of the Tarot Associations for a list of psychics and Tarot readers. Also, have a look at personalized websites and get to know your reader first before asking for their services.

Numerology: 2018 and Your Personal Year Number


2018 is a special year for those who study numerology. It is comprised of the number 11 (8+1+2) and the number 2. 11 is considered a “sacred number” in numerology and is associated with both spirit guides and angels. It is said to give off a “sacred vibration” and represents an alignment between the spiritual and material worlds.

11 is often seen more frequently when a person is on the cusp of a spiritual awakening, being considered sacred and having a sacred vibration. It’s one of the most powerful of all the numbers. This year is made even more special because we haven’t experienced the number 11 in year form since 2009.

The number 2 represents building, growth, and also partnership. If there is any aspect of your life that could be strengthened and built up, this is the perfect time to team up with one person or a community to work on it. The number 2 is about building sturdy and secure foundations and partnerships, whether for business, your aspirations, or your personal relationships.

2017 represented a time for new beginnings and personal growth. However, in 2018, we’re being challenged to help and work with others in order to grow. It’s a good time to think about how your calling and aspirations will affect other people and how to use them to improve the world. Working together with people who are also experiencing a spiritual awakening will ensure you’re benefiting from the optimal impact of the vibrational frequencies given off by the number 11.

The numbers 11 and 2 will affect everyone, but you also have a personal number, as well. Your number combines with 11 and 2 and gives you a more personalized 2018 insight. To find your number, add your birth date and birth month together, then add 11. If you end up with a double-digit, add those two numbers together. (This may need to be repeated until you get a single digit.) The number that you’re left with is your personalized number.

For instance, my birth date is 05, and my birth month is 06.

5+6= 11

11+11= 22

2+2= 4.

This means that my personal year number is 4.

Your personal year number and what it means for you

  • Personal # 1

Just like in 2017, the theme of 2018 for you is new beginnings. It’s a great time for you to try something new, whether it’s something fun, a new tool for your spiritual toolbox, a new job, or a new business. It’s also a good time to work on yourself, find your independence, and work on self-development and spirituality. This is the year to create a new you.

  • Personal # 2

You are going to be very in tune with the vibrations from this year. The year will be centered around socialization and partnerships, whether they be business or romantic. Find like-minded people who build you up and encourage you. These people are your “tribe” and will make great partners.

  • Personal # 3

This is a good year to project your thoughts and feelings. You’re going to feel very motivated to share your story or truth with the world. So, it’s a good time to start that blog, journal, or book you’ve meant to write. It’s a good time to use any form of creative outlet to express yourself because you’ll be focused on finding and sharing your truth. This will also be a good year to strengthen your intuition and learn to listen to it.

  • Personal # 4

Work and responsibility are strong themes in your life this year. Apply yourself to those ideas that you’ve been keeping to yourself. Putting your plans into motion this year will be easier with a little motivation. You’ll probably be working hard this year but also connected to your spiritual side. Take advantage of this opportunity to get in touch with your intuitive nature and learn to trust your intuition.

  • Personal # 5

The themes for your year are relaxation and fun. You’ve worked hard, and you deserve a break. Traveling is a good idea because it would be fun and insightful. Find a place to travel that is new to you and, therefore, an adventure. If you start feeling too stressed, spending some time in nature should leave you feeling refreshed. It’s also a good time to ask for a raise or to ask for what you’re worth. But remember to relax overall.

  • Personal # 6

Your keywords for this year are “family” and “personal health.” Having your family around is going to feel massively important to you. So, work on repairing any damaged relationships you have with family members. Your health will also benefit from the vibrations associated with this year. It’s a great time to start working out, eating well, and paying attention to your mental health.

  • Personal # 7

This year will bring you a lot of spiritual and emotional growth. You’ll likely experience a lot of new thoughts and philosophies. Your belief system may even get a complete overhaul. And you’ll likely want to learn new things, so research something you’re interested in, take a class, or simply learn something new. Of course, this is also a great time to learn to develop your intuition or psychic gifts. But, above all, remember to keep an open mind.

  • Personal # 8

This is a good year to get things done. You’ve already done a lot of work in the personal growth department, and you likely know the steps needed to achieve your goals. You’re highly likely to achieve whatever you set out to do this year, so aim high for your goals. Although you have cosmic help and luck, it will be vitally important to remember your past and stay grounded in order to prevent mistakes or bad outcomes.

  • Personal # 9

This will be a year of endings for you, which isn’t necessarily a bad thing. On the contrary, this can be very empowering, especially if you put an end to things in your life that just aren’t working for you anymore. So be kind to yourself this year, as some endings may not be easy. But remember: for everything that comes to an end, the potential for something new is also there.

Letting Go of Your Regrets


“Take every chance you have so that you won’t regret it!” or, “I shouldn’t have let that happen…” You know the process. You do something; then you realize you did something you wish you didn’t do.

Maybe you broke someone else’s trust, and now you’re overwhelmed with guilt. Perhaps you compromised on your principles in some way, and now you’re terrified that your world will come crashing down. But, regardless of what you did, you can feel your anxiety like a sack of red-hot bowling balls surgically implanted in your gut. (Too dramatic? Perhaps. But regret is rarely reasonable!)

It’s the dreaded, “Oh no! What was I thinking?” moment when you know you’ve done something you shouldn’t have, and you see only two possible outcomes: either, “I might not be able to fix this!” or, “I’m certainly going to lose something important!”

Both of those things might be true. In fact, they often are. Actions do have consequences. We do lose things all through life. Nothing is permanent, not even the most secure relationship. But none of this has to be catastrophic.

Sometimes, losing one thing leaves you open to something else. It may be a lesson that helps you become more effective and happier in the future. Or, it could be a new possibility that you never even considered the possibility of actually seeking, like that dream you put off to go work that job you just lost. Then again, it’s possible that you won’t discern any benefit right away; maybe you’ll wish you went a different way, grieve what you lost, and then eventually let it go and move on.

The point is you will eventually be able to let go and move on.

And because you’re a strong, smart, capable person, you will certainly find ways to make this new direction meaningful for you. You will make up for what you lost by gaining something equally important in the aftermath, whether it’s a new understanding of your strengths, a new idea of who you want to be, or a new opportunity to try again but a little wiser this time around.

It’s hard to think that way when you feel your dream job slipping through your fingers or you miss someone who made your life fuller than it could possibly be on your own. What’s important to remember is that no matter what changes or what slips away, you can still do something meaningful and fulfilling from right where you are. That’s how to let go of regrets when they start overwhelming your sense of optimism and possibility. Need more ideas to let your regret fade away?

Here are some positive affirmations that may help you let go of regret.

Don’t even allow regrets. Instead, make each decision with the fullness of heart and mind. Try to view mistakes as lessons learned; they are not meant to be regrets. Do differently next time, and there will be nothing to regret. Try not to think “what if.” Live by all your heart, not by your head.

It takes time and patience, but try to think of all of the positives that came out of the situation. Trust that each experience is a lesson in the journey you’ve chosen and embarked upon. Embrace both the light and the dark, and trust that everybody is exactly where they should be on their journey in this life.

Don’t attach yourself to your emotions. Instead, breathe, reflect, learn, and forgive yourself. Then, recognize the emotion, let it go, and move on.

Regret is a waste of time. Don’t hold on to it. Instead, find something better to replace it. We may come to regret the time we spent regretting unless we’ve learned from the regrets and focus on making a more centered and peaceful now, where we strive to create fewer regrets and more love.


Having some regrets may not be a bad thing. They can make you strive for better. If you never had them, you wouldn’t grow spiritually. Your preconceptions of regrets determine how they affect you, positively or negatively.

Regrets are visitors in the guest house of the mind. But, like all feelings, they come and go. And sometimes, life gives you circumstances that simply have to be grieved. There’s no way around that. So feel it, review it, learn it, shed it.

Every time a regret crosses your mind, set your mind instead on something positive in your life. Every bad decision can be rectified, depending on how much work you’re willing to put into it.

Every feeling has a purpose related to survival. Regret can be useful. You can’t hope to change this fact because it’s simply part of life. You can instead learn to deal with feelings of regret by reflecting on them, then learning from mistakes, then finally letting go.

What helps you let go of regrets?

Why Beauty on the Outside is Not Enough

Beauty on the Outside

Many people strive to be kind. They strive to be caring and compassionate. Others do not put kindness and compassion first. These people may have bad habits that make them annoying or irritating  to the point that no one wants to be near them.  You may have these traits and not know.

Here are a few that you might want to be aware of:               

1) You appear self-centered

This is a hard one to be aware of. If you focus on yourself, and find yourself the most fascinating topic to the point where you aren’t listening to anyone else, stop. No one wants to be around some who only cares about themselves.

2) You are only concerned with outer beauty


Most of us know that to be truly beautiful, your attraction has to come from your heart and soul as well as your body.   Physical appearance isn’t the only thing that matters.  Look deep inside and see who you truly are. It’s not to late to become truly beautiful.

3) Everything is a contest

You seem to be in constant competition with everyone.  Do you have to be the one on top, to the point whenever anyone celebrates a victory, you have to top that? If this sounds familiar, it’s time to celebrate someone else for a change.

4) You see your friends as competition

If you find yourself in constant battle with your friends to the point where you seem to be stabbing people in the back rather turning the other cheek, it is time to reevaluate your friendships.

5) Your importance is in question.

It is extremely unattractive to constantly question that if you are important or valued in your peer group.  If you consistently want to know why you aren’t the center of attention, get over it. Face the fact that you are not the center of the universe.

6) Bossy

Everyone in a group of friends should be considered equal.  It is very off-putting for one to always to decide and control. If that is you, it’s not very attractive.

7) Dishonesty is your policy

It should go with out saying but you should always be honest with your friends.  Lying and cheating is not honest behavior.  And it is true that honesty is the best policy

8) Rudeness

Impoliteness and embarrassing behavior, particularly in public can definitely drive your friends away from you. This is not to say that you can’t have disagreements or mild conflict, but constant rudeness is in excusable.

9) Unreliability

If a friend calls on you, do you help? If you can’t ever be counted on to follow through or help, you are not being a good friend, especially if you expect others to help you out whenever you need it.

10) Negativity

It’s hard to be positive every minute of every day, but if you are consistently putting others down or looking askance at activities, you could be pushing others away.

Ideal Partner But Unwanted In Love?

Unwanted In Love?

Ideal person, beautiful and smart yet unlucky in love?

Many beautiful women reported a history of bad relationships: unfaithful boyfriends or husbands, frank physical or verbal abuse by their partners or a loss of interest by the men from whom they most wanted that interest. There are lots of reasons for this. Here are a few:

  1. If you have come from a home where you were neglected, criticized, or abused, your self-worth will likely be less than it should be. Recall Marilyn Monroe: famous, beautiful, and talented, but insecure and unlucky in love. A woman with the background I’ve just described often looks for approval from someone who unconsciously reminds her of the person who failed to love her as a child. It is as if the unconscious mind is still looking for the thing that was never achieved before (love or approval), and it only has value if it can come from a similar kind of person. Of course, since the parent in question was neglectful or critical, the chosen substitute will likely be that way as well, providing the woman with another chance to prove herself. Unfortunately, given her poor choice of a partner, the sought-for affection and approval often are no more likely than they were in childhood.
  2. Whether male or female, if you moved too often as a kid, the insecurity of being the new kid on the block is hard to shake. You may also feel the never-ending need to prove yourself. Once again, insecurity can lead to choosing someone less good and kind than you deserve.
  3. Are you too needy? Are you too dependent on your boyfriend or husband to decide for you? Are you unable to support yourself financially? Can you bear to be without a boyfriend for very long? Do you need regular reassurance that you are “the one and only?” This gets old quickly. While that reassurance will temporarily calm your fears, your friend will almost surely tire of it, leaving you less secure if you don’t ask again for a sign of his devotion and him feeling put upon if you do. As with a number of the concerns mentioned above, therapy is suggested if your self-worth requires the presence of an escort along with constant bolstering from him; and if you have a tendency to lose your sense of self in the relationship, forget about your friends when you are with a romantic partner and give-in to your new love for fear he will otherwise leave you.
  4. Is your beauty (or sex) all you believe you have to offer? There are tons of gorgeous, sexy women out there, and, unlike you, they won’t age! (Or at least, that will be the way it seems since, as you get older, there will be a new cohort of young females who eventually will look preferable in purely physical terms). Although men can be pretty primitive in their response to the physical characteristics of women, qualities like wit, kindness, intelligence, good humor, and integrity grow in their value to all but the most unenlightened men. As someone once said, “Beauty fades, but stupid is forever.”
  5. If a man shows interest in you too early, are you turned off? It’s true that there is an element of gamesmanship in dating and mating, but don’t choose the intrigue of a man who is hard to get and misses the devotion and decency of some others.
  6. Are you too entitled? Do you believe your boyfriend or husband should keep you on a pedestal, shower you with gifts, and buy the best house in just the right neighborhood? Do you value money, status, and material things too much? If you do, a well-grounded man will tire of you or avoid you. One who is less secure or less enlightened may simply become weary of your demands for “more” and instead seek a less self-involved and shallow woman.
  7. Are you a good listener? I hope so because relationships demand this of both parties. If you aren’t, your partner will not feel understood by you. Unless you respect the differences between yourself and your lover (which very likely were initially attractive), you will find the relationship works poorly or not at all.
  8. As I’ve said before on my blog, sexual interest, and enthusiasm are necessary parts of a good relationship. Abandon them at your own risk. However, this is not to suggest you should have sex simply because your partner wants (or worse) demands it.
  9. Do you allow yourself to be demeaned in public by the man you are with? I always ask marital couples who seek therapy what initially attracted them to each other. When I asked this of one male, I recall he said, “She ‘shows’ well,” about his physically attractive wife. The tone made it clear this was a demeaning statement, not a compliment. Indeed, the man might as easily have said the same thing about a show dog or show horse. The wife made no objection to the comment. A more self-respecting woman probably would have walked out of the room.
  10. Do you have a drinking or drug problem? Does your male friend? How do you know you don’t? Just because everyone you know seems to drink about as much as you do, doesn’t mean that you can avoid the alcohol or drug-driven downside of heartache, arguments, and a bad end to the relationship. Read up on alcohol abuse to get a sense of where you stand: alcohol screening dot org
  11. Do you tend to wind up with men you feel sorry for? Not a good choice. Do you give in to men who pursue you relentlessly, even though you aren’t enormously attracted to them? Again, this is not destined to lead to a good match.
  12. Do you believe you can change the man you are with? It is unlikely this will happen, or if it does that the change project will be accomplished even within a few years. As the old therapy joke goes, “How many therapists does it take to change a light bulb?” Answer: “One, but the light bulb has to want to be changed.”  Take a measure of who you are with while you are still capable of being objective, which means your evaluation needs to be done early in the relationship. Once your heart takes over, and you are in love, rational judgments are either too late or altogether impossible.
  13. As a father to two career-minded, married daughters, I applaud independent women who forge careers. But just as a man needs to remember his wife and children need attention, so do women in high-powered careers need to live by the same rules. If you are neglectful of your partner, mentally or physically exhausted by the work you do between 9 and 5, and consumed by issues related to your vocation, the relationship is at risk.
  14. Are you too critical? If you experienced or observed a fair amount of criticism growing up, it is easy to become like the person who did this. Indeed, we are often at risk of becoming the thing we hate or of normalizing the unfortunate characteristics we observed in our parents because we had no other family experience to compare it to. Yet, compassion, understanding, forgiveness, and acceptance are needed in any good relationship and in large quantities.
  15. Do you expect your boyfriend or husband to fulfill your life and make you happy? No one can really do that for you, although having a companion can be worthwhile and important. But a relationship will not solve all problems or make life perfect. So don’t expect it to. The weight of that expectation on your lover is more than most relationships can bear.
  16. One final point, and a sad one. If you are smart and beautiful, and especially if you are professionally accomplished, a fairly large number of men out there will be intimidated by your competence, intelligence, authority, and attractiveness. As a result, you might have to generate more than the usual amount of effort to find a good match. That is unfair but true.

In closing, I should say that making a good choice of mate, regardless of whether you are a man or a woman, is challenging. But there are a lot of good people out there (albeit fewer men than women), so if your history shows a pattern of failed choices, it’s best to look in the mirror and ask why. And, if you can’t come up with an answer or change your pattern even though you are aware of repeating the same mistakes, therapy often helps.

Finding Love

romantic intuition

Is it possible to fall in love with someone before we even meet them?  Possibly, especially when you consider the circumstance of having an instant dislike for someone.  Love is indeed based on our latent intuition.   How does this intuition work?

What is romantic intuition?

It’s not a big mystery. We have been building on our past experiences and former relationships all our lives. This is layered with our personal backgrounds, both social and familial.   These layers are the frame of mind with which we meet potential partners.

We feel drawn to them when we meet someone who clicks with our background requirements. However, if we also find this person physically attractive, we can think of this as love at first sight.

This immediate reaction does not necessarily mean that the attraction will grow into a deep and lasting love.  True love involves growing with your partner as both of you bloom and grow.  As you get to know one another, you will grow closer. The initial attraction helps you fit together from the beginning.

Can you have love without the initial intuition? Probably not.  While few people are lucky enough to know someone before they fall in love, it is even rarer to fall deeply in love without having the initial pull or attraction to them.

Some acknowledge that their pursuit of perfection has left them lost and lonely.  They have turned down potential lovers because they don’t fit their image of perfection.  While feeling that you know someone before you fall in love is rare, there is no chance of finding love if you seek the ideal that is only found in romance novels.  This only leads to loneliness and wasted time.

Your time is better spent nurturing your current relationship to meet your ideal. Then, the ideal can be created.

Because no true love is easily found, we should not disqualify what we see in the everyday.  Real love does not occur out of pure feelings.   It takes time and examination.  This does not mean overthinking things.  Pay attention to your heart as well as your head.

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What to do With a High Psychic Sensitivity

High Psychic Sensitivity

Have you ever had headaches when you’re around certain people for no apparent reason? Then, you’ll find out that the headache disappears when that person is far enough away. Or do you experience the same thing with tiredness-whether that person is in front of you or on the phone? Do you get waves of anxiety when you are in crowds? When someone you care about is suffering, do you feel their pain inside your own body?

If you answered “yes” to any of these questions, you might be experiencing the effects of hyper-psychic sensitivity.

Cutting-edge science has proven that when you look at another person across a room, just the mere act of your observation affects the way the cells interact in that person’s body. Research also proves we can influence other people’s emotions and thoughts (and be influenced by others), regardless of our physical contact with them.

Psychic Sensitivity – According To Top Scientists, We All Experience This

Have you ever felt someone looking at you while sitting in traffic and then turning your head to catch someone staring at you? This is just a minor example of the psychic sensitivity phenomenon, which can sometimes occur on a much deeper level and sometimes with more profound effects. Sometimes this sensitivity has its benefits. For example, suppose you meet a new potential mate or business partner. In that case, it’s good to be able to sense that person’s true motivations on a psychic level before you make any decisions concerning that person.

On the other hand, if psychic sensitivity isn’t harnessed and under your control, it can sometimes be more of a curse than a blessing. One of the most intense examples of psychic over-sensitivity I’ve encountered was a gentleman who couldn’t shake anyone else’s hand because he would get psychic flashes in his mind of all the trauma the person had experienced. As you can imagine, this was quite painful for this gentleman to experience.

Through various methods, I was able to teach this man how to control the ability, to turn it on and off like an electrical switch. He also was able to filter what psychic information he received when he was using the ability.

This is much better than shutting the ability off altogether, an ability that could be used to make his life easier and maybe help others along the way.

When managed properly, psychic sensitivity can be a powerful tool to help you transform your life – with relationships, career, business, and personal awareness.

In his book “Think and Grow Rich,” Napoleon Hill referred to intuition, or psychic sensitivity, as the “Temple of Wisdom.” He called it the most powerful aspect of our subconscious mind. It’s what separates the genius from the average person.

Although I’ve taught more people how to strengthen psychic sensitivity over the years, I’ve encountered other situations where students needed help controlling psychic over-sensitivity. A more common example is individuals who dream at night about all the murders occurring in their local city. When someone is killed, especially violently, it puts out a strong “psychic charge,” which is easy to pick up if you don’t have control over your internal awareness. As you can imagine, this can create quite a bit of discomfort in one’s life.

Methods For Controlling Psychic Sensitivity

If you experience psychic over-sensitivity, the good news is that you don’t have to be a “psychic sponge” for the rest of your life, soaking up other people’s stuff. The catch is that you may have to do a little work to get control over your psychic sensitivity. If you are experiencing this, even occasionally, here are some beginning-level techniques that should help you to get control of your experience.

The first method has to do with learning how to control your curiosity. Curiosity has a strong influence over what information you receive psychically. For example, if you are at a hospital walking by rooms of people who are sick, and you allow yourself to get curious about what is wrong with each person, you are likely to get “psychic feedback” from each person. If you are highly psychically sensitive, you may feel each person’s pain in your own body.

When you catch yourself curious about something that will not benefit you, immediately shift your focus to something more productive. For example, if you see an ambulance racing by with sirens roaring, if you ask yourself, “I wonder what’s wrong with the person in the ambulance?” immediately shift your thinking to something like “I send healing to whomever that person is and now, what do I need to do today to make a better life for myself and the people I care about?” From there, focus on what you need to do next (make a phone call, sort some paperwork, run an errand, etc.).

Control Your Psychic Ability – Simply Keep Your Mind Out Of Other People’s Business

The next technique requires a bit more practice and involves controlling what many spiritual disciplines refer to as your “energy field.” Start by finding a quiet room where you can practice undisturbed for a few minutes. Sit down and get yourself relaxed.

Now pick a simple object in the room which is a few feet from your body, such as a doorknob. Now close your eyes and imagine being right next to the doorknob, as if you were a fly sitting on top of it. Now imagine being a little point at the ridge of your nose inside your body. Now imagine being on the doorknob again, as if everything you are is at that location. Shift back and forth from being at the doorknob to being at the ridge of your nose for a few minutes.

With some occasional practice, you should start to feel a “shift” when moving back and forth. The eventual goal is to be able to “energetically shift” your awareness completely inside of your body. This is good to do when walking through a crowd of people – it will allow you to pick up less psychic garbage from those around you. You can look around at people while at the same time holding your “energy field” into your body.

Of course, if you want to get a psychic sense of someone or something, you can shift your “energy field” onto that person/object. From there, you pay attention to any new emotions, thoughts, etc., you are feeling. With some practice, you can use this technique as a powerful method for attaining psychic-based information for other people, objects, and events.

These are beginning-level techniques, but they can be very helpful if you are too psychically sensitive.

The Most Import Thing – Keep Practicing And Pay Attention To The Results You Achieve Through These Exercises

The important thing is to start taking action. This is what I decided to do many years ago – I had no interest in just sitting there as a victim to circumstances to so many things like this.

I took it upon myself to study in person with a formal Military Intelligence Project (US Air Force) centered around developing and controlling psychic ability. I studied with the founder of this project for about 15 years.

Then, I ended up working with literally the most famous psychic in the world; I gained so much training and experience under my belt over the years that it just seemed selfish not to pass this on to the people who needed it. This is what led to my development of the Life Mastery Program.

The point I’m making is that if you want to change, do whatever you have to do to get this change.

Now you may not need to go to the extremes that I have, but if you want to change, I suggest doing something about it instead of just “sitting in it.”

As many of my students have over the years, you may achieve major control over your psychic sensitivity with just a little training and practice.