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Understanding The Meaning of Your Dreams

Your Dreams Are Insightful!

Are you having a hard time remembering your dreams? Do you often wonder what your dream meant? Some people have better dream recall than others but everyone dreams. Have you experience sitting down, looking at nothing and your mind goes round and round trying to remember what your dream is? I can help you remember and understand your dreams! 

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Diary of Your Dreams

One way to help improve your dream recall is to keep a dream journal. Buy a journal and keep it on your bedside table with a pen or pencil. Or if you’re more tech savvy, record your voice recalling your dream. After a night of dreaming, try to recall what you remember in your dream journal upon waking.  The more you do this, the easier it will be to recall your dreams. Just give this process three weeks and you will start to remember more of what is in your dreams.

Record Every Detail

No matter how you choose to keep track of your dreams, make sure you record every detail you can recall. Even the most minor details have meaning. Be sure to consider your senses and think about the following questions: What did you see, hear, feel, taste and smell? Where were you? Were you near water, in a forest, in a house or in the desert? Who was there? Did you recognize anyone? How did their presence make you feel? Have you had this dream before?

A Deeper Meaning

Each detail leads to a deeper meaning. Sometimes dreams answer questions or offer solutions. Sometimes they help us deal with stressful situations. Some dreams even tell us what’s about to happen. So when you record your dreams, think about what’s going on in your life (at home or at work) and see if there is a connection. You may be surprised to know that there is usually a connection.

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The Astrology Connection

Be sure to include the date of your dream. Often, there is an astrological or numerological connection. Astrology and numerology are fun ways to take your dream interpretation to the next level. As a numerologist, I can add that deeper level of analysis to your reading.

Dream Dictionaries

You may have seen a dream dictionary in the bookstore. A dream dictionary often includes common dream elements and explains them. If you lose teeth in a dream, the dictionary explains what that means. If you fly in your dream or if you are near a river or ocean in your dream, the dream dictionary can tell you what all those symbols mean. However, what’s true for one person may not be true for you.

I love dream analysis! It’s one of my most-favorite requests from my callers. It’s really rewarding for me when I make a connection between a caller’s dream and something they’ve been struggling with. Then I give them next steps, if appropriate. I also really love tying numerology into a dream analysis reading, because dates and numbers play an important role too! If you’re stumped by a dream, call me! Let’s figure it out together.

Still In-Touch With Your Ex?

why-your-ex-texts-stays-in-touchHow would you feel if you ran into your ex somewhere? Would you greet them or would you find a place to hide? Do you hope that you will continue to communicate and stay in touch? Is it possible to be friends with someone who was once the most important person in your world?

You Know Them Well

Someone you used to love not easily removed from your memory. You have shared memories and emotions and experiences.   These are not easy things to just put aside and erase?

Two Things

Some think that keeping in touch with your ex can only hurt you and delay the healing process. Some also think its possible to maintain  friendship with your ex.  Here a few things to consider:

  • Time To Move On!

heart girlSome times you shouldn’t try to be friends with an ex-love.  If they treated you badly during the course of your relationship, you should not try to be their friend.  If you lost the spark somewhere and think you may be sticking around in hopes that you can rekindle the flame, you shouldn’t be friends.  If you have a tendency to over glamorize the past and over reminisce, you shouldn’t be friends.  If it didn’t work the first time, it’s highly unlikely that it will work this time.

  • Don’t Let Go!

Just because it didn’t work out romantically, it doesn’t mean you cant be friends. You do know each other well. You know what you like and don’t like.  You have a solid foundation for a friendship. it doesn’t mean a friendship won’t work out either. But it’s not a good idea to jump into a friendship right away

  • A Healthy Friendship

This type of friendship can work if you keep in touch and truly care about your ex and their well being. You can still celebrate shared events and most importantly, you can be supportive.

Some Challenges

If you don’t set clear boundaries with your ex, it may be difficult to maintain a friendship.  when this happens, your romance may spark up again, this would  be problematic if you have already moved on to a new partner.   If you do have a new love, be open and honest about your past relationships.  Be sensitive to the feelings of all concerned.

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Six Tips that Women Can Follow to Avoid Some of the Most Common Dating Mistakes

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First-date hopes are often shattered early on by mistakes women make whether they meant to or not.  You meet a great guy and want to go out on a date with him. You’ve had a lively conversation and were very engaging and open-minded. But for some reason, he doesn’t call you the next day, or the day after that. Days or weeks go by and you find yourself lamenting with your girlfriends, trying to figure out what you did wrong. Again.

Following are six tips that women can follow to avoid some of the most common mistakes made before going out with a guy on a date.

  1. Be prompt in your replies.

Texting knockout happens when you knock yourself out of the dating ring before you’ve even had the chance to get in. You may have been delaying your responses to his texts because you don’t want to seem desperate. But there’s a fine line between playing hard-to-get and truly being unavailable. If you wait too long to respond to his texts, he may lose interest.

  1. Be interesting.

Some women hint to guys that they need to bring excitement into their lives, because their lives are so-o-o boring without them. They may say things like, “I’m tired” or “I have to go to this family thing, but I don’t want to,” or answer every question with “I dunno, sort of, I guess…” But all that really does is make you look like you’re seeking pity and makes you seem boring. Guys are drawn to interesting women. Be interesting! Have interesting plans and interesting friends. Make your life exciting. Don’t rely on a guy to make it exciting for you.

  1. Confirm your date.

It’s common courtesy for a guy to confirm your date several hours before you’re supposed to meet up. But if he doesn’t confirm, don’t go ballistic or assume that something’s seriously wrong. Simply take the initiative and reach out to him to confirm the date. But if you find out there really wasn’t anything keeping him from confirming with you, it may show that he isn’t all that excited about going out with you.

  1. download (7)Dress appropriately.

Guys like women who dress sexy. But that doesn’t mean you should wear a micro-mini skirt to go ice skating, or stiletto heels to a corn maze. Dressing sexy isn’t as important as acting sexy, though. Charm him with your words, not your body. If you wear provocative clothing on your first date, you’re giving him the impression that he might get lucky later that night. If that’s something you’re not interested in on a first date, you should probably err on the side of caution and tone down the wardrobe.

  1. Tell the truth.

Lying happens a lot, especially when people first meet online. They lie about their age, their profession, their relationship status and even their gender. The hope is that when they actually meet the person face-to-face that they’ve been talking to online, all will be forgiven. But you don’t need to lie, and you shouldn’t. If a man isn’t mature enough to accept the real you, you shouldn’t waste your time with him. On the flip side, don’t get too excited about anyone you meet online. They could be lying to you.

  1. 2015-NEW-Fsahion-6-colors-Big-Space-Owl-Print-Carteira-Women-Wallets-Ladies-Clutch-Carteras-FemininasBring some spare cash.

One a first date, who’s supposed to pay? Some people think that the person who initiated the date should pay. Others believe that the guy should always pay. But most guys appreciate it when a woman offers to pay for her half, and many women prefer to pay their own way. It makes them feel independent, and it keeps guys from feeling entitled to sex later. So bring along some cash. And if you do offer to pay for your half, be sure to be sincere about it. Don’t slo-o-owly reach into your purse in the hopes that your date will offer to cover it. Also, bring enough to cover an Uber ride home, just in case he picked you up in his car and the date looks like it’s not going to end well.

You Have A Choice to Change Your Life

download (5)Everything we do in life is a choice, and I think most of us realize that. But what most people don’t seem to realize is that everything we don’t do in life is also a choice. Every day we choose to do some things and to not do other things.

Most people would like to change their life in one way or another. How about you? Are there areas of your life that you would like to change?

You Have a Choice

But, I am here to tell you that what seems to be impossible is indeed possible. First and foremost, we have a choice. This choice is where it all begins to change; it’s where we choose to come out from beneath the dark cloud under which we reside and step out into the sun. It is fear that keeps us in our pain, locking us into our retreat from life. Having been stuck in this kind of pain for many years myself, I finally came to understand that happiness is a choice. And, it was a choice I had to make before my life could change for the better.

images (6)Seek Guidance from Loved Ones

Once the choice is made to make a change, it is important for us to decide what things we’d like to change. The difficult part lies in making daily choices and decisions that would affect or create the change that is desired. Seeking guidance through this process from our loved ones can be a valuable tool. Oftentimes, our loved ones see things from the outside that we might not be able to see because we are stuck on the inside.

Seek Spiritual Guidance

Additionally, seeking spiritual guidance when we desire change can be invaluable. We walk through life creating and continuing patterns that can cause some of the negative things that we’ve experienced, so one of the most valuable tools we can use is reaching out for direction on how to break those patterns and overcome the obstacles we face that keep us stuck. Sometimes, it’s as simple as being pointed in the right direction. Finding someone that we connect with when reaching out for this guidance is important, as it’s both the information, as well as the delivery of the information, that can prompt the change that is necessary. As a psychic, I come from a place that is understanding and empathic, but not everyone responds well to that approach. The most important thing is to find someone you can trust to help guide you through some of the change.

Surround Yourself with Good Examples

images (5)And, finally, surround yourself with people who have implemented the kind of change you want to see in your own life. This is probably one of the healthiest things we can do because we learn so well by watching others. We all have people in our lives who we’ve admired and others that leave a lot to be desired. Start spending more time with the people in your life who are happy. They will inspire you to follow this path yourself and teach you how it can be accomplished.

So don’t let another day pass where you’re still stuck in your pain. Today can be the day that everything changes. The choice is yours.

4 Ways of Attaining a Conscious Relationship

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One of life’s great challenges is creating a healthy relationship. Getting on someone’s wavelength can be a grueling, near-impossible task that does not come with guidance or instructions. Most of the time, though, it is worth evaluating your own decisions; selfishness, in particular, can quickly drive an otherwise loving relationship to ruin.

As such, there is a lot to be gained by working towards making your relationship a ‘conscious’ one. This entails ensuring that both yourself and your partner are working towards a state of growth; that requires focusing on both individual growth and unified growth as a couple.

What kind of growth, exactly? The kind that makes the world brighter. Unfortunately, most people throughout history initiate relationships for their own personal goals. However, if you are not focused on working together to achieve this unified growth, your relationship is more likely to leave you dissatisfied.

The ‘intention of growth,’ as it is called, can provide you with mutual satisfaction. Your relationship can become more than a mission for self-gratification, which is better for all involved. Here are four tips for achieving ‘next-level’ love in your progression to conscious love.

First things first: focus on growth instead of the outcome of the relationship.

By all means, you can daydream about how your relationship will turn out. Your first port of call, however, should be focusing on growth. Stasis is the greatest enemy of progression, so your level of satisfaction will automatically stop if you cease to grow spiritually, emotionally, mentally, and physically.

Furthermore, to ignore your own growth in favor of your partner’s is to cage yourself in their growth. You are unable to engender your own growth if you are simply not focused on it. Once again, this corrupts the balance of your relationship and causes it to become unsatisfying.

Indeed, growth can be terrifying; you may consider the risk of outgrowing one another, which would be ‘too much growth.’ Alas, collective growth strengthens the relationship by keeping it truly alive, and the risk of drifting apart becomes minuscule in comparison with non-conscious relationships.

Respect Your Triggers

Everyone brings some form of negativity to a relationship, whether it’s the hurt that lingers from a previous relationship or emotional wounds that have no correspondence to romance in general. Rejection and abandonment are two common feelings one can expect to experience in a new relationship—especially if you expect to emphasize growth.

Another misconception is the idea that negative emotions are detrimental to your relationship. However, these are your negative emotions, not your partner’s, caused by dysfunctional patterning. Your own beliefs are to blame for your pessimism.

Facing your faulty belief systems is essential to conscious growth, so the conscious couple should prioritize this area despite its difficulty. Take responsibility for your dysfunctional patterning, and you will be on track to attaining a much stronger relationship.

Disregard All Manner of Judgment

Conscious relationships require partners to feel free to feel whatever is natural to them without fear of judgment from their partner. Of course, this can only come after the previous point about taking responsibility for one’s actions. Truly naked desire can be dangerous for any relationship, but it can be the most freeing thing imaginable when it is accepted.

Finding the courage to be completely honest with your partner is one thing, but the importance of allowing them to be brutally honest with you often goes unmentioned. Certain things may be difficult to hear, but working past these negative reactions is essential for ensuring your relationship is the strongest it can possibly be.

Remember: the reason you alter your self-image around other people is to feel more comfortable in yourself. That, however, only serves to limit your personal growth all the more; by extension, it limits your collective growth with your partner. Radical honesty (and its acceptance) is essential to strengthening your bond as a couple.

Love is a Practice, not a State of Being

To love is to enter a state of vulnerability. It’s a practice that includes acceptance and forgiveness. Most people make the mistake of treating love as a destination; people become unsatisfied when the feeling of ‘love’ is absent and treat their relationship like something has gone horribly wrong.

The truth is that love appears in the nuances of a relationship. This exploration forces you to question whether your approach to your partner is actually a form of practicing love. Furthermore, every act of practicing love is different, allowing your relationship to blossom in new, interesting, and ultimately satisfying ways.

To be a conscious couple is to rely on that growth and to trust love to appear in strange, beautiful ways.

How to Use Spiritual Unity to Make Your Relationship Last

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In the beginning, falling in love is magical and new. It is a refreshing emotion as you move toward your love.  Everything in the world seems to fall away as you have found your soulmate.

But, as time goes by, this rush of love seems to disappear, and you may begin to wonder if you just imagined the rush of emotion and love.    After you fall in love and move back to the day-to-day minutiae of your regular life, the bloom of freshness will fall away.

You should nourish your relationship and soul to keep this from happening and maintain your love. This involves work.

There are a few things you can do to help keep the romance and unity in your life:

  • You can turn your fights into solutions. It is a myth that all lovers have a blissful existence.  Fighting doesn’t mean your relationship is bad or toxic.   Fights don’t have to be obstacles.   Instead, work on the problem as a team and, as a team, finds the solution.  This will nurture your relationship by giving you a new level of honesty and clarity.
  • Spend your time together nourishing your souls.In our busy lives, finding time to spend together is hard.  You can maximize the benefits of your unity by growing together spiritually. For example, you can meditate together or enjoy nature by taking a long walk.  You can also explore mutual interests by watching a documentary or art film together. This effort will help you grow together, mind and soul.  It is important that you spend your time together constructively.
  • Know each other’s energy.As you and your partner grow together, you begin to know each other on a deeper level. You are functioning well as a team, and you respect each other’s intellectual growth.  The next step is to become intimate with your partner’s energy field.  Simply put, your personal energy is the combination of all of your levels of thought in conjunction with every other thing that makes you, you.   You can get in tune with your partner’s energy by just being next to them. Try lying down with them quietly, just absorbing his energy. Share the space by being together without doing anything.

Actively tuning into each other physically, spiritually, and intellectually will keep your romance fresh and alive and help you grow as human beings.

5 Ways to Create a Positive Work Environment

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The environment you work in can drastically affect your mood and motivation. So, it could be argued that the state of your working environment is even more important than your job responsibilities and duties. Working in a place with a negative atmosphere can make employees unhappy, leading to decreased productivity and a lack of motivation.

Here are 5 ways to create a more positive working environment:

  • Change it up

Some offices are simply drab, with boring colors and furniture. But, even if your office is painted with bright colors and comfortably furnished, looking at the same things every day can get depressing. Liven up your workspace with your favorite pictures, motivational quotes, or even some colorful flowers. Brightening the space and adding some personal touches will make it more enjoyable and comfortable to work in. If you can move things around and use some feng shui techniques, that will also change the room’s energy.

  • Clean it up

A cluttered environment can lead to disorganized thoughts. It also creates a negative atmosphere. So, if your desk is messy and unorganized, clean it up and organize it. You’ll be surprised how quickly some simple cleaning and organization can alter the atmosphere and your mood.

  • Team-building exercises

Team-building exercises always boost morale and put employees in a good mood. They build trust and a sense of camaraderie between co-workers. They also allow employees to talk to people they seldom interact with at work. Some employees don’t get to socialize with people they work with while they’re on the clock, and these exercises fulfill their social needs. The attitude of employees after team-building exercises is more positive, which makes the working environment more positive.

  • Good communication

A lack of communication can not only be frustrating, but it can also cause catastrophic misunderstandings. In an office environment, it should be commonplace to communicate frequently with supervisors to get updates, tips, and other important information. There are many ways to do this, from regular team meetings to a company email server or instant messaging system. But no matter which method your company chooses, it’s still important to use face-to-face communication often. Some things just aren’t adequately conveyed through text.

  • Motivate and inspire

Many office workers feel as though their efforts and achievements go largely unacknowledged. This is dangerous because if they feel it doesn’t matter how well they do, they won’t strive to do a good job. There are lots of ways to motivate and inspire your employees, however. You can take time to tell your employees that they’re doing a good job and that they’re appreciated; you could say it in a newsletter, awards can be given out, contests can be held with prizes for top performers or teams, etc. But it’s important that it gets done because it will boost morale and create positive energy in the office when your employees feel happy and appreciated.

Of course, these are only some ways to create a more positive working environment. It’s very likely that after you do some of the things mentioned on this list, you’ll be inspired to do something else to change the energy of your working environment, as well. And once you’ve started working to change the atmosphere to a more positive one, you’ll notice how much happier and less stressed the employees seem.

The Power of Human Touch

download (1)As much as people try to recreate the power of a good massage with high tech devices, anyone can tell you that no matter how high end a product is, it’s not even close to the real thing.  It’s something more than skin on skin. There is a comfort in the power of the human touch. It is not a unique. Cultures all over the world have use the mysterious magic of human touch.  Touch can heal and soothe. Even today, modern science acknowledges the benefits.

When we feel lost and alone, the simple touch of another person can ground us and help whether the pain be from mental or physical sources.   There are five main benefits of touch that you may not know.

Comfort and Reassurance

As children and babies, we find comfort in a hug or reaching out to a loved one. This need doesn’t fade when we get older.  Everyone appreciates and wants human contact.  The touch of another can help us to  relax and grow as we are  meant to and reach our full potential.

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Stress release and relaxation

Human contact not only relieves stress, it is relaxing.  This is easy to see when you think of how effective a massage is. When someone you love is rubbing your shoulders or giving you  massage, it can definitely work wonders as far as feeling stress and tension lift away.

Confidence boosting

Think about the last time you got a pat on the back for doing a good job or a hug from someone. Remember the confidence and pride you felt? These are just additional benefits of human touch. When a child feels the need for comfort, they reach out to take a hand.

Demonstration of Love

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Some have problems saying how they feel. However, they feel perfectly comfortable giving a hug or gentle caress to show how they feel.  Touch is wonderful way to show love.

Healing

Touch heals. It’s not just a feeling.  Immune cells in the body increase with touch.  This helps physical and mental problems heal.   Touch can also change moods and alter behavior.

Everyone needs touch. It’s not just the healing, it’s the happiness. When you are feeling ill and low, just hug someone.

All the Single Men

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It is not uncommon these days for men to stay single. It is said that some men choose to stay single so they can do whatever they want and that marriage only restricts their freedom.

This eventuality leads to disappointment when you meet a man who piques your interest, only to find that not only does he not want to commit now, he may never commit.  Is their independence so important that they would risk being alone forever?

It is not news that you have to compromise to survive and thrive in a relationship.  When you start a relationship, many men do not want to part with worldly possessions, from a ratty t-shirt from high school or their top-of-the-line gaming system.  They do not want to run the risk of a new lady in their lives taking over and literally cleaning the house.  Or, even worse, making them do it.

Here are a few tips to avoid fights or the possibility of a breakup:

Step 1

Don’t try to control him unless you want to find yourself on the fast track to singlehood.

Many men like to stay single so that they can date as many people as they want.  Even if he truly cares about you, he may not be ready for a relationship. Just because you are ready for a commitment doesn’t mean he is. If he is not ready, don’t force him.   This is a good way to lose him altogether.

Just because his priorities are different doesn’t mean your time with him is wasted.  Enjoy your time together, and take it slow.

Step 2

Give him some time and space. You don’t want to push him away.

Another reason he may want to be single because they are afraid of the expense involved with a committed relationship. The expense associated with marriage goes far past the cost of a ring and ceremony. A spouse means twice the expenses. They may feel that you, as their lifelong partner, expect them to foot the bill for everything, not just insurance and joint costs, but being the sole support of both of you.   A good way to avoid this is to be independent and let him know you are self-sufficient.  Make him understand that you want him as part of your life, not the reason.

Step 3 

Be friends with him.

Help him feel comfortable with you.  Spend quality time doing small things, such as letting him know that you enjoy sitting at home with him as much as you enjoy going out with him.

You may not change his mind, but you can have fun while going out. If you do change his mind, then the relationship was meant to be long-term. Continue to show your independence and enjoy time together and separate activities.

Is it Lust or Love?

Lust or Love

Sometimes it is hard to know if you are actually in love or just deeply minded in physical attraction. Initially, it is hard to tell, but a sign is understanding that true love happens over time and can develop from an immediate attraction.

What is Lust?

Lust stems from physical attraction.  It is said to be based on pheromones, chemicals within us that generate a response. In animals, it leads to reproduction; in humans, it manifests in lust.

Lust is an attraction to another person with a sexual intent, though not with the connection that comes from raising a family. It can last from several hours to several minutes. It is important to realize that one can receive physical release without being emotionally attached to someone. It can also be so intense that you can confuse it with love.

What is Love?

Love is much deeper than a physical connection. This bond between two people comes from the investment of respect, support, and emotional fulfillment.

When you are in a love relationship, it is a lasting bond that only grows as time passes.

How do we find true love?

While it is easy to find lust or sex, it is difficult to find love.  We all seem to want to find the one person who completes us deeply. This isn’t easy when we consider how many people there are in the world. Some consult the zodiac to help them find the connection from their zodiac sign.

While it may be fun to play with those with whom you share a physical attraction, at some point, the fun will end when you can’t make an emotional or spiritual connection.  This is a clear sign that you won’t be able to have a long-term relationship with them.

If you grow tired of looking in the wrong direction for the right partner, you can consider consulting a psychic or astrologer to help guide you.  You don’t have to conduct this search alone. Some psychics specialize in guiding folks toward true love.

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